need embedded player.. please help

[RadioHybrid]

Hey,
I am new to shoutcast so bear with me. I know how it is to deal with newbies.. but we were all there at one point.

I need to embed a player into my web site. I dont want people to have to click anything or openm anything to hear the streaming music.

I have tried lots of various options including html that was supposed to embed windows media, a free generate html from museser (sp).. and other free html codes I have found.

It may be the way I am loading my stream.. does a windows media embed need a specific suffix at the end of my stream?
I did find in the forum a few different htmls but none seemed to work using my stream.
my stream is:
http://s8.secondstreams.com:8850
do I need to modify that stream address for it to work with certain embedded players.
Anything you can do to help will be really appreciated.
Z
radiohybrid.net

[fc*uk]

*<OBJECT ID="MediaPlayer" WIDTH=385 HEIGHT=73
CLASSID="CLSID:22D6F312-B0F6-11D0-94AB-0080C74C7E95"
STANDBY="Loading Windows Media Player components..."
TYPE="application/x-oleobject">

<PARAM NAME="FileName" VALUE="http://s8.secondstreams.com:8850" valuetype="ref" ref>
<param name="AudioStream" value="1">
<param name="AutoSize" value="0">
<param name="AutoStart" value="1">
<param name="AnimationAtStart" value="0">
<param name="AllowScan" value="-1">
<param name="AllowChangeDisplaySize" value="-1">
<param name="AutoRewind" value="0">
<param name="Balance" value="0">
<param name="BaseURL" value>
<param name="BufferingTime" value="5">
<param name="CaptioningID" value>
<param name="ClickToPlay" value="-1">
<param name="CursorType" value="0">
<param name="CurrentPosition" value="-1">
<param name="CurrentMarker" value="0">
<param name="DefaultFrame" value>
<param name="DisplayBackColor" value="0">
<param name="DisplayForeColor" value="16777215">
<param name="DisplayMode" value="1">
<param name="DisplaySize" value="1">
<param name="Enabled" value="-1">
<param name="EnableContextMenu" value="-1">
<param name="EnablePositionControls" value="-1">
<param name="EnableFullScreenControls" value="-1">
<param name="EnableTracker" value="-1">
<param name="InvokeURLs" value="-1">
<param name="Language" value="-1">
<param name="Mute" value="0">
<param name="PlayCount" value="0">
<param name="PreviewMode" value="0">
<param name="Rate" value="1">
<param name="SAMILang" value>
<param name="SAMIStyle" value>
<param name="SAMIFileName" value>
<param name="SelectionStart" value="-1">
<param name="SelectionEnd" value="-1">
<param name="SendOpenStateChangeEvents" value="-1">
<param name="SendWarningEvents" value="-1">
<param name="SendErrorEvents" value="-1">
<param name="SendKeyboardEvents" value="0">
<param name="SendMouseClickEvents" value="0">
<param name="SendMouseMoveEvents" value="0">
<param name="SendPlayStateChangeEvents" value="-1">
<param name="ShowCaptioning" value="0">
<param name="ShowControls" value="-1">
<param name="ShowAudioControls" value="-1">
<param name="ShowDisplay" value="0">
<param name="ShowGotoBar" value="0">
<param name="ShowPositionControls" value="0">
<param name="ShowStatusBar" value="-1">
<param name="ShowTracker" value="-1">
<param name="TransparentAtStart" value="0">
<param name="VideoBorderWidth" value="0">
<param name="VideoBorderColor" value="333333">
<param name="VideoBorder3D" value="-1">
<param name="Volume" value="-1">
<param name="WindowlessVideo" value="-1">
<EMBED TYPE="application/x-mplayer2" SRC="http://s8.secondstreams.com:8850"
NAME="MediaPlayer"
WIDTH=320
HEIGHT=240>
</EMBED></OBJECT>

[damn68]

what about if you don't have a host and you are streaming from
you home pc. I tried http://ipaddress:8002 and mysite get frozen
I tried using shoutcast link but cannot hear anything. Any help.