Emotional Rollercoaster
 

A couple of weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me. She said that she felt like she didn't love me as much as I loved her. I began to find out some of the problems in our relationship, and she eventually told me all of them(this last weekend). We spent a couple periods completely away from eachother to try and let things settle down a little bit. Well yesterday was by far the craziest day of my life. I finally emailed her a response to some of the problems that she saw and said that I was going to try to mature as best as I could. Through a friend, because we weren't talking to eachother directly at the time, I found out that she really liked the letter and that she did still love me. This made me happy beyond belief, but then about an hour later the same friend told me not to get my hopes up too high. Extremely confused, I tried to figure out what was happening, but she wouldn't tell me - she wasn't even supposed to tell me what she had up to that point. So now I was beginning to think that maybe my girlfriend didn't love me anymore and that my friend had gotten confused. My girlfriend decided to start talking to me again at about 2230, and it sounded like she just wanted to be good friends. Well, we went to grab a quick bite of food at midnight, and on the way back, she surprised the hell out of me and told me that she did want to start going out again and that she felt that she had made a mistake leaving me in the first place. Overjoyed, I said yes and found out what all had happened. Apparently our friend wasn't suppose to tell me anything but wanted to give me some hope. When my gf found out that she had told me some stuff, my gf made her tell me the opposite to keep me from suspecting her surprise. Since I'm as dumb as a rock that wasn't really needed, but it all worked out anyways and I'm extremely happy. In fact I think I may even go to class today. Her favorite television programs come on tonight(CSI and Without a Trace), so I am looking forward to watching those with her.

w00t! :)

It's good that it all worked out fine between you two...now don't start a confusing mess like that again ;) Hope that there will be no more break ups like that one!

Mia:)

i'm really happy for you anubis! Hopefully, that hapiness will last for a long time!

remember that without downs there are no ups.

Thanks everyone. :)

I love her so much. Can't wait for tonight. :)

I think that things will be much better this time around. I am sure as hell going to do everything I can to keep from messing up the same things again.

i broke up with my g/f and we got back together and we've been together going on 3 years now. If i can keep a relationship together, you'll do great!

Congrats rock. I hope the same happens with me and my gf.

Congrats (a fitting story for a guy with the username of the Egyptian god of reincarnation).

Re: Emotional Rollercoaster
 

I know the feeling :) Good luck, and remember...you both should be enjoying yourselves in the relationship. Anytime I start stressing about my girlfriend these days I just remind myself to relax and enjoy the ride...seems to work pretty well so far.

I agree gonzo - definitely going to do that a bit more during my second chance.

My girlfreind cheated on me, she seemed to ignore the fact that the guy she was cheating on me with lived next door to me, he seemed to not even know she was going out with me, that was a fun conversation.

Single has many advantages.

btw- We luv ya man! W00t to the gf yo.

Why is it women like to mess with mens' minds? Our minds are very simplistic and messing with them messes us up a lot! :igor:

Yeah, but guys also don't care as long as things end well. Tonight was awesome - we watched the shows and had a lot of fun - I laughed more tonight then I have in ages. It was awesomely fun

Paragraphs man......holy shit just a block--but cool that it all worked out! For me it would have been "fuckified"(thanks Mr.JONES for a new word)

Congrats Anubis! I'm happy for you.

And Gonzotek's right. "Over-analyzing" things too much will lead to problems (trust me, I've done this a lot in the past). Just enjoy the ride, as he says.

My last relationship really tore me up when it ended (I posted the whole story here). But I'm over it now, and in fact I'll be posting my profile on match.com in a week or two. My dream girl's probably there now, just waiting for me. :D

Enjoy the days to come, Anubis.

As for me, I've had it with cheaters

That's so good it all worked out man. I started reading this thread thinking it was going to be another one of those sad breaking up kinda things, but for once there's a happy ending. yay :D

CSI owns. As does CSI: Miami. Cant wait for CSI: New York. It will premir via Miami (like Miami premeired via Las Vegas) in a month or 3.

<3 Grissom