Having the "gril" blues
 

Another messed up relationship. Yeah she cheated on me. I don't understand women. Not 1 bit. Now all I can do is think about it. When I go to work I'll think about it, when I eat I'll think about it, and when I sleep I'll think about it. Great.

well dude, sorry to hear that :(... i've never had a girl cheat on me cause i really dont do much in the way of relationships period, so you're doing better than i do. i know that cant make it stop hurting, but it'll ease with time. take care. :)

Sorry to hear that, it seems to happen a lot to the forum people lately :( ...about not understanding women, the cheating has nothing to do with it. People cheat on eath other when the relationship was not the right one for them, it's as easy as that and guys do the same as girls do...it's sad but it's the truth.

I have never cheated on someone nor have I been cheated on (as far as I know at least) so I have been lucky so far. I can imagine how you feel though so I wish you all the best getting over her and finding someone with whom the relationship will the right one! :up:

Mia:)

your grill cheated on you?

Grilling problems

What YOU need is some lighter fluid, Starbucks.

Yeah. Whopsm, didn't notice I spelled girl wrong. Thanks guys and girls for your support. I went to ride my motorcycle for about 2 hours and it eased the pain a little. It's better than last time i got cheated on. Last time the pain lasted about a week (I felt like shit the whole week).

I'm really sorry Starbucks. :(

Mia's absulutely right, though. It's not just girls, but in a relationship, either side can be hard for the other to understand. And this applies to same-sex relationships too.

The best you can do is make as clean of an emotional break as possible, although this is never easy. Go your own way, and like Mia said, once you're over it find a "real" relationship.

This one obviously wasn't "true love". If it was, she would have been faithful. So you didn't really lose anything. It just means that your true love is still out there, and you'll find her...maybe sooner than you think. ;)

blowing himself up won't do anything. blowing her up might make him feel better though.

Seriously, i'm sorry to hear that dude. but if she cheated on you then she's not worth it.

That sucks big time. I'm sorry to hear about this, Starbucks, especially with what happened with your ex wife. There are some evil people out there, and I think we need to go old school and burn 'em at the stake.

Bad joke aside, just keep going day by day, and one day soon, you'll look back and breath a sigh of relief. :)

That's a good thing to do, just take a break and do things that you like and enjoy to get your mind of the issue, it won't help you thinking about it over and over, it unfortunately won't change what happened. Go out with some friends, post here, do some nice things that comfort you. :)

Once again good luck on moving on, seems like you are already doing a little better! :up:

Mia:)

I don't think I've ever been cheated on, and I'd never cheat. Monogamy is more my thing. ^_^
Girls who cheat are generally insecure about themselves and the relationship.

Don't worry, Starbucks. You'll find somebody, I promise. *Hug*

Sometimes things just dominate your life until you talk to people (in real life, not on the net) about it. There's a difference between talking to someone and complaining to someone though; try to just explain something rather than to beat yourself up over it.

Damn shame that people beat me to the grill jokes...

Thanks boys and girls. It's getting better. Sometimes I can feel my heart beat 3 times faster than normal, it only happens for a few hours a day, though it does come back often. That's what it feels like. Yeah, I was at my best buddies house just yesterday, we skate boarded through out the night, something we haven't done together in years. Spoke to him about it too. It was a lot of fun. We rode our cycles together.

Re: Having the "gril" blues
 

that sucks... i havn't had a girlfriend yet, and i'm in high school.... i have a person to say "hi" to once and a while.. but thats about it... other than saying "hi" once and a while we kinda talk in math but that was last quarter so we don't really talk anymore, partly because i dont see her anymore...

Good luck to you Bored.

How old are you starbucks?

I'm 21. How old are you whiteflip?

19. i know for me that im still to young to be in a serious relationship. i think i will feel the same way at 21. hope you feel better.

thanks :)