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THIS is a rarity for the Chevster but I just returned from an exciting evening of fun and games with my palsies at the lodge. That's nothing new to us, but we were introduced to one of my compadre's sisters:eek:
My god! I was struck in the eyes by the most captivating creature ever to blesss this planet(at least in the last couple hundred minutes.) Tell me! Have you ever had a "love at first sight?" |
No comment. Makes life miserable. I'll tell more later.
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love is a game of chance. sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt. like sawg and henry3k56 think love sucks,but Boplicity thinks its great...and so do i. love is just a game of chance,and all you have to do is win it. some people die without winning,and some die having the jackpot. its the way the world turns.
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I didn't say that love sucks. Its just that I've failed at doing so. Causes serious problems. I know that love is like a dream that you're living your life to the best its been, but having a crash landing hurts emotionally.
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I have had a "love-at-first-site" moment happen to me once or twice, but...The other person didn't see it that way toward me.:(
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I wouldn't call it love, because love takes a while to develop and needs many things to grow, but I've been very attracted at first sight.
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Thanks alot for your Psychological perspective on the idea.
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yea i believe in it. I looked at a girl at college and BAM... i knew i had to be with her. I absolutly love her, and enjoy being with her, every minute of it. Not dating her though, her heart isnt free, cause she likes someone else but dosent have the nerve to tell him. If her heart does become free i hope she does think of me, cause she's on my mind 24/7.
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So many people with stars in their eyes
I think you all might be a little mislead. Love has nothing to do with emotions. Love is a choice and an action, to put someone else's needs ahead of one's own.
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I don't think it's a choice at all, it just happens and there is nothing you can do about it. I do believe in love at forst sight because it happened to me last year but I never asked her out or did anything. Don't call me a wus now she wouldn't have gone out with me in a million years.
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Love chooses you, not the other way around.
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Bah. When I hear of love at first sight, I always think "lust." Love has to be more than just being attracted to another person physically but also mentally. Mentally means that you are attracted to their mind and not you convincing your mind to like that person. For some lucky ones (Bop), they get emotionally attached after their physical attraction. It's not often that lust will turn out to be love, but it does happen once in a little/very tiny/small while.
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Physical attraction will always occur first as that is all we have to go on when we first meet someone and so lust is the more appropriate term. For this I think we need to redefine what we mean by 'at first sight' I think it means 'at first meeting' which will mean that we actually get to know a little about that other person and fall inlove with both their looks and personallity.
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I don't know much about love. Nobody's ever been attracted to me. I'm still young (14) so I still have some time left to find out. At my school, it seems that everyone has had a girlfriend/boyfriend at one time or another except me. Because of that, I'm planning on living alone for the rest of my life. Anyway, I'm not sure if I beleive in love at first sight or not because i've never been in love or any kind of relationship.
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I do not believe in love at first site, i belive that love is bilt on a base of friendship. Although i have been going out with my girlfriend for 11 months and 4 days now, it took us a while to be in love with each other. NOw we are though, we are inseparable.
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only love I get right now is from my left hand :cry:
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im sure s1132 will lend you his hand:p
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I'm left-handed. Is there something wrong with that!?
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Man, I ain't sharing hands, that's the best way to get AIDS! :rolleyes:
[edit]not left handed btw...[/edit] |
I beleived in love at first sight, but then again, i don't know, maybe we hated each other atfirst. I Don't know, we were 2y/o, now; 15yrs later, 4 of which were spent dating. She dumped my sorry ass, and now my overly-emotional-pissed-off side says, "bah, love, no such thing". And since there's no such thing as love there's no such thing as love at first sight.
But thats just the veiws of a recently ditched 17yo geek. |
[Robert Stack voice]Update![/Robert Stack voice]
My "Face of an Angel" was only visiting here from Nebraska and is on her way back there today :( Next time she comes back here? February 18th(I'll have to have a belated Valentine's day:up: ) |
Perhaps send a valentine, enclosing a ticket to a nice opera/concert/movie? http://www.sgtfuzzbubble99.homestead...Suave_anim.gif
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Great idea!
Unfortunately, I'm 180 miles from civilization here:( |
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You seem to have it bad Chev. I don't believe in love at first sight as stated by someone earlier there is such thing as lust at first sight, love is something that can take a long time to develop. But then again lust often turns to love after a while if it happened to me it can happen to anyone. I used to thing the love was just two people that had obsessive compulsive disorder.
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It's gotta be love!
When I touch myself, I don't even think of her:blah: |
try touching someone else and see if you think of her of end up getting arrested.
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if we were still allowed to post SA pics this would be a good place for one.
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You're right in saying there can't be love at first sight. But there is something similar.
It's when you look into someone's eyes, and you see something deep in there that grabs you. Neither of you dare to look away, in fear of breaking the moment, but then one of you must, and look back up through your eyelashes at the other. Now, this happened to me last Sunday night. I was on a business management training course thing, organised by the people i'm doing my gap year with. There were, therefore, many like-minded people there. Now this girl, i mean wow. Anyway, she obviously saw the same thing in me that I saw in her, and we got together. It happened fast, and as we were at this college (in a little place called Pershore, Worcestershire, UK. Don't EVER go there) we were together a lot. We were together for four days (that was it) but it felt more like four weeks. On the Thursday night it all went horribly wrong. Long story. We are still friends (somehow)! So 'love at first sight' does exist, but love is also chance. Sometimes it happens for no good reason, sometimes is doesn't. Here end the ramblings of someone who's still in 'love'. |
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Me? Deep? hah!
I'm just in a relatively contemplative mood! Her name's Kathryn by the way. I'll have to go on a serious slag-a-thon in Cheltenham or Worcester to make myself feel better. See, i'm shallow really! :D |
I don't mean to disrespictive by this but I think places in england have the funnies names.
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Wales and all those stan lands have the weirdest names. Bosnia too, has some odd names.
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don't forget America...
there are actually a lot of towns in the U.S. called "hickville" But to get back on topic... it all depends on what you consider "love" to be. Lots of people see someone and think "man, I really gotta bang him/her!" As for me, I am truly in love with someone I have never met except in a chatroom. Don't even ask me to explain it, I can't... but I somehow know what her house looks like... :eek: |
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