Many people are wanting someone with a very good health and with many money to get many help from this person (and also to get many money). That's also a reason, why someone suddenly loses many "friends", if the own health suddenly becomes worse or if suddenly the incomes become much smaller.
I have to think also for myself, I don't have to think only for the others, and I'm not egoistic.
I had experienced many bad things since my whole life (the school was the hell on earth for me). Our own lifes aren't very nice for us, but we are trying the best.
There are people with more and with less tolerance in this world. We ourselves live in a house with 10 apartments. 1999 neighbors had moved into this house, and 2000 they forgot to turn off their stove, when they went outside. They had also the music very loud in the first years. They are still here, they have another culture with own traditions, and I'm accepting them, because I'm a very tolerant person. But another woman, who had moved into the house this year, began to fight against them. The neighbors didn't open the door, but when other guests were standing in the door to say goodbye, she ran up the stairs to the door and she ran into their apartment, although the neighbors didn't want to let her in and she wasn't allowed to do that. This is trespassing, and I myself would never allow that. It's just another reason, why I don't go to the door anymore, if I hear a ringing.
Other neighbors in the apartment above let run their washing machine each night. I myself have fears now to have the music a little bit louder, I let run the music on my PC with less volume now, if I use the loudspeakers, since this woman lives in this house.
Last weekend (the night from Saturday to Sunday) in the other house opposite on the other side of the street some people had celebrated a wild party with many guests and very good House Mixes. They live in the same floor like this woman does. The music was very loud, but they didn't disturb me...
