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I used to judge whether or not an outing was a success based on how many people showed up, but I've changed since then. I started doing more of what I wanted and less of what "they" wanted. Initially it caused people to fade away, and yet I was still enjoying that time a lot more, even if doing things all alone. The interesting thing is that eventually I was able to find more fitting people to spend time with because of this, and now I have the best of both worlds. Even if there's a time when no one shows up, I'm still doing what I love and don't need the extra people to keep me from having a good time.