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Sabine Klare · 9th April 2013, 07:15

Unfortunaley the man and the woman have together with their few colleagues the house right, they can also kick someone. All the other people are guests. The man greeted a girl-friend with a nasty remark, when she stopped by again after many years. The girl-friend also didn't like the woman. The woman yelled at me on the day, when I got a very sad message from Frank (suddenly he appeared, and I had already known, what had happened). The woman didn't have the right to yell at me, while I didn't feel so good. At another time, when I had made a little mistake, a normal critique would have been much better than yelling at me, and she did that on an event. No person should yell at another person on an event...
Christmas Events are celebrated at this meeting-point each year. Another girl-friend was in a music-group many times, and she wanted to have also me in this music-group, which has mostly new members each year. The music-group itself had also searched for new people, but the chief of this music-group didn't want to have me in her group, while other people were welcome immediately. This is very upsetting for a person with musical skills. Also on the yearly summer-parties I had never performed live. But I don't miss that anymore. I have Mixlr now, and I am doing my own live-events on Mixlr regularly...
On the weekly meetings other people are coming now, and less people than in earlier times. They all are so closed, I can talk with nobody anymore. I had always wondered, why many people from the earlier times, who were also on these meetings for a very long time, suddenly didn't come anymore, and I had known them all. It was possible to talk with them. But I have the answer now: They had also made bad experiences at least once (or more than only once), and then they decided to stay away...
1997 Frank and I had founded 2 own meeting-groups, and we had to search for new meeting-rooms many times. In the beginning many people came, then less people. 2000 nobody came anymore to one of the meeting-groups, and we had to disband it. 2002 we had to disband also the other meeting-group. Suddenly they all didn't have the time anymore for our monthly meetings, and mostly they had the same age. In Berlin there are 2 other big meeting-groups. Many people are coming to the monthly meetings since many years. They have different opinions and also disputes very often. But I don't really belong to them, because they all are much older than me...

9th April 2013, 07:15	#15
Sabine Klare Major Dude Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Berlin, Germany Posts: 1,082	Unfortunaley the man and the woman have together with their few colleagues the house right, they can also kick someone. All the other people are guests. The man greeted a girl-friend with a nasty remark, when she stopped by again after many years. The girl-friend also didn't like the woman. The woman yelled at me on the day, when I got a very sad message from Frank (suddenly he appeared, and I had already known, what had happened). The woman didn't have the right to yell at me, while I didn't feel so good. At another time, when I had made a little mistake, a normal critique would have been much better than yelling at me, and she did that on an event. No person should yell at another person on an event... Christmas Events are celebrated at this meeting-point each year. Another girl-friend was in a music-group many times, and she wanted to have also me in this music-group, which has mostly new members each year. The music-group itself had also searched for new people, but the chief of this music-group didn't want to have me in her group, while other people were welcome immediately. This is very upsetting for a person with musical skills. Also on the yearly summer-parties I had never performed live. But I don't miss that anymore. I have Mixlr now, and I am doing my own live-events on Mixlr regularly... On the weekly meetings other people are coming now, and less people than in earlier times. They all are so closed, I can talk with nobody anymore. I had always wondered, why many people from the earlier times, who were also on these meetings for a very long time, suddenly didn't come anymore, and I had known them all. It was possible to talk with them. But I have the answer now: They had also made bad experiences at least once (or more than only once), and then they decided to stay away... 1997 Frank and I had founded 2 own meeting-groups, and we had to search for new meeting-rooms many times. In the beginning many people came, then less people. 2000 nobody came anymore to one of the meeting-groups, and we had to disband it. 2002 we had to disband also the other meeting-group. Suddenly they all didn't have the time anymore for our monthly meetings, and mostly they had the same age. In Berlin there are 2 other big meeting-groups. Many people are coming to the monthly meetings since many years. They have different opinions and also disputes very often. But I don't really belong to them, because they all are much older than me... Last edited by Sabine Klare; 9th April 2013 at 08:18.