[Sabine Klare]

Hello NJK, I am so sorry for You...
February 1991 the cousine of my mother had died with only 46 years, the only one related person of my old family, who had accepted me, although I am the second-born and not the first-born child (my mother's sister had treatened me like the scum, because I am not the first-born child, and also for my father's sister as the second-born child I wasn't very stately)...
March 2003 my father had died with 74 years. His last weeks were very terrible, and I had already the gloomy foreboding. And when my father had died and I dared to cry in a room, while many other people were sitting there, a woman had only yelled at me and forced me to leave the room, before the other people had the opportunity to help me (nobody had expected her behaviour)...
I experienced also many terrible telephone calls (I cannot count them anymore). On the evening before I had visited my mother, we had a nice talk for 2 hours, then I visited the square for 1 hour. It was a very nice evening. everything was okay, although I myself am in a very bad situation. On the next morning the terrible telephone call came: "Your mother is in the hospital, the apartment is burnt!"...
You are right, life is fragile, and anyone can suddenly be dead on the next day...
I wish all the best for You and take the time, which You will need now...