Having the "gril" blues

Starbucks · 5th March 2004, 16:58

Another messed up relationship. Yeah she cheated on me. I don't understand women. Not 1 bit. Now all I can do is think about it. When I go to work I'll think about it, when I eat I'll think about it, and when I sleep I'll think about it. Great.

msteed_02 · 5th March 2004, 17:03

well dude, sorry to hear that

... i've never had a girl cheat on me cause i really dont do much in the way of relationships period, so you're doing better than i do. i know that cant make it stop hurting, but it'll ease with time. take care.

Mrs_Mia_Wallace · 5th March 2004, 17:16

Sorry to hear that, it seems to happen a lot to the forum people lately

...about not understanding women, the cheating has nothing to do with it. People cheat on eath other when the relationship was not the right one for them, it's as easy as that and guys do the same as girls do...it's sad but it's the truth.

I have never cheated on someone nor have I been cheated on (as far as I know at least) so I have been lucky so far. I can imagine how you feel though so I wish you all the best getting over her and finding someone with whom the relationship will the right one!

Mia

. - .... .- -. .... · 5th March 2004, 19:05

your grill cheated on you?

Vie · 5th March 2004, 19:21

Grilling problems

xzxzzx · 5th March 2004, 20:54

What YOU need is some lighter fluid, Starbucks.

Starbucks · 5th March 2004, 21:26

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your grill cheated on you?

Yeah. Whopsm, didn't notice I spelled girl wrong.

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all the best getting over her and finding someone with whom the relationship will the right one!

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well dude, sorry to hear that ... i've never had a girl cheat on me cause i really dont do much in the way of relationships period, so you're doing better than i do. i know that cant make it stop hurting, but it'll ease with time. take care.

Thanks guys and girls for your support. I went to ride my motorcycle for about 2 hours and it eased the pain a little. It's better than last time i got cheated on. Last time the pain lasted about a week (I felt like shit the whole week).

ScorLibran · 6th March 2004, 02:03

I'm really sorry Starbucks.

Mia's absulutely right, though. It's not just girls, but in a relationship, either side can be hard for the other to understand. And this applies to same-sex relationships too.

The best you can do is make as clean of an emotional break as possible, although this is never easy. Go your own way, and like Mia said, once you're over it find a "real" relationship.

This one obviously wasn't "true love". If it was, she would have been faithful. So you didn't really lose anything. It just means that your true love is still out there, and you'll find her...maybe sooner than you think.

k_rock923 · 6th March 2004, 02:08

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Originally posted by xzxzzx
What YOU need is some lighter fluid, Starbucks.

blowing himself up won't do anything. blowing her up might make him feel better though.

Seriously, i'm sorry to hear that dude. but if she cheated on you then she's not worth it.

ShyShy · 6th March 2004, 03:19

That sucks big time. I'm sorry to hear about this, Starbucks, especially with what happened with your ex wife. There are some evil people out there, and I think we need to go old school and burn 'em at the stake.

Bad joke aside, just keep going day by day, and one day soon, you'll look back and breath a sigh of relief.

Mrs_Mia_Wallace · 6th March 2004, 12:20

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Originally posted by Starbucks
Yeah. Whopsm, didn't notice I spelled girl wrong. Thanks guys and girls for your support. I went to ride my motorcycle for about 2 hours and it eased the pain a little. It's better than last time i got cheated on. Last time the pain lasted about a week (I felt like shit the whole week).

That's a good thing to do, just take a break and do things that you like and enjoy to get your mind of the issue, it won't help you thinking about it over and over, it unfortunately won't change what happened. Go out with some friends, post here, do some nice things that comfort you.

Once again good luck on moving on, seems like you are already doing a little better!

Mia

White Raven · 6th March 2004, 18:00

I don't think I've ever been cheated on, and I'd never cheat. Monogamy is more my thing. ^_^
Girls who cheat are generally insecure about themselves and the relationship.

Don't worry, Starbucks. You'll find somebody, I promise. *Hug*

Merlin · 7th March 2004, 00:35

Sometimes things just dominate your life until you talk to people (in real life, not on the net) about it. There's a difference between talking to someone and complaining to someone though; try to just explain something rather than to beat yourself up over it.

Damn shame that people beat me to the grill jokes...

Starbucks · 7th March 2004, 00:52

Thanks boys and girls. It's getting better. Sometimes I can feel my heart beat 3 times faster than normal, it only happens for a few hours a day, though it does come back often. That's what it feels like.

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things just dominate your life until you talk to people

Yeah, I was at my best buddies house just yesterday, we skate boarded through out the night, something we haven't done together in years. Spoke to him about it too. It was a lot of fun. We rode our cycles together.

bored154 · 7th March 2004, 06:17

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Originally posted by Starbucks
Another messed up relationship. Yeah she cheated on me.

that sucks... i havn't had a girlfriend yet, and i'm in high school.... i have a person to say "hi" to once and a while.. but thats about it... other than saying "hi" once and a while we kinda talk in math but that was last quarter so we don't really talk anymore, partly because i dont see her anymore...

Starbucks · 10th March 2004, 22:11

Good luck to you Bored.

whiteflip · 10th March 2004, 23:04

How old are you starbucks?

Starbucks · 11th March 2004, 00:39

I'm 21. How old are you whiteflip?

whiteflip · 11th March 2004, 02:58

19. i know for me that im still to young to be in a serious relationship. i think i will feel the same way at 21. hope you feel better.

bored154 · 11th March 2004, 03:47

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Originally posted by Starbucks
Good luck to you Bored.

thanks

5th March 2004, 16:58	#1
Starbucks Forum King Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Forums Posts: 2,685	Having the "gril" blues Another messed up relationship. Yeah she cheated on me. I don't understand women. Not 1 bit. Now all I can do is think about it. When I go to work I'll think about it, when I eat I'll think about it, and when I sleep I'll think about it. Great.

5th March 2004, 19:05	#4
. - .... .- -. .... Backpacking Moderator Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: საქართველო (Georgia) Posts: 10,104	your grill cheated on you? Like my photography? Buy some here....

5th March 2004, 19:21	#5
Vie Forum King Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Thoron fields and Duranium shadows. Posts: Crap mostly Posts: 8,003	Grilling problems Member most in need of SpellCheck Lifetime Achievement Award I'm a Twitch Streamer these days, it's weird.

5th March 2004, 20:54	#6
xzxzzx Forum King Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 7,254	What YOU need is some lighter fluid, Starbucks. Freedom of speech is the basic freedom of humanity. When you've lost that, you've lost everything. 1\/\/4y 34\|<$p4y 1gp4y 33714y, 0d4y 0uy4y? \| Roses are #FF0000; Violets are #0000FF; chown -R ${YOU} ~/base The DMCA. It really is that bad. : Count for your life.

6th March 2004, 02:03	#8
ScorLibran Resident Floydian Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 6,222	I'm really sorry Starbucks. Mia's absulutely right, though. It's not just girls, but in a relationship, either side can be hard for the other to understand. And this applies to same-sex relationships too. The best you can do is make as clean of an emotional break as possible, although this is never easy. Go your own way, and like Mia said, once you're over it find a "real" relationship. This one obviously wasn't "true love". If it was, she would have been faithful. So you didn't really lose anything. It just means that your true love is still out there, and you'll find her...maybe sooner than you think. I'm a psychosomatic sister running around without a leash.

5th March 2004, 17:03	#2
msteed_02 Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 283	well dude, sorry to hear that ... i've never had a girl cheat on me cause i really dont do much in the way of relationships period, so you're doing better than i do. i know that cant make it stop hurting, but it'll ease with time. take care.

5th March 2004, 17:16	#3
Mrs_Mia_Wallace has a crush on Bilbo (Forum Queen) Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Switzerland Posts: The starting points at a racetrack. Posts: 3,060	Sorry to hear that, it seems to happen a lot to the forum people lately ...about not understanding women, the cheating has nothing to do with it. People cheat on eath other when the relationship was not the right one for them, it's as easy as that and guys do the same as girls do...it's sad but it's the truth. I have never cheated on someone nor have I been cheated on (as far as I know at least) so I have been lucky so far. I can imagine how you feel though so I wish you all the best getting over her and finding someone with whom the relationship will the right one! Mia

6th March 2004, 03:19	#10
ShyShy Amazon Bush Woman Forum Queen Join Date: May 2003 Location: The Sticks, Queensland Posts: 8,066	That sucks big time. I'm sorry to hear about this, Starbucks, especially with what happened with your ex wife. There are some evil people out there, and I think we need to go old school and burn 'em at the stake. Bad joke aside, just keep going day by day, and one day soon, you'll look back and breath a sigh of relief.

6th March 2004, 18:00	#12
White Raven Little Winged One Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Canada, now UK Posts: 4,174	I don't think I've ever been cheated on, and I'd never cheat. Monogamy is more my thing. ^_^ Girls who cheat are generally insecure about themselves and the relationship. Don't worry, Starbucks. You'll find somebody, I promise. Hug just as feathery as ever \| portfolio \| a poignant quote

7th March 2004, 00:35	#13
Merlin ¯¯¯¯¯¯¯ (Forum King) Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Manchester Posts: 4,209	Sometimes things just dominate your life until you talk to people (in real life, not on the net) about it. There's a difference between talking to someone and complaining to someone though; try to just explain something rather than to beat yourself up over it. Damn shame that people beat me to the grill jokes... as he faced the sun, he cast no shadow __________________

10th March 2004, 22:11	#16
Starbucks Forum King Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Forums Posts: 2,685	Good luck to you Bored.

10th March 2004, 23:04	#17
whiteflip Post Master General (Forum King) Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Seattle, Now Las Vegas Posts: 6,032	How old are you starbucks? I'm Back?

11th March 2004, 00:39	#18
Starbucks Forum King Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Forums Posts: 2,685	I'm 21. How old are you whiteflip?

11th March 2004, 02:58	#19
whiteflip Post Master General (Forum King) Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Seattle, Now Las Vegas Posts: 6,032	19. i know for me that im still to young to be in a serious relationship. i think i will feel the same way at 21. hope you feel better. I'm Back?

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