Girls are the downfall of society

[ShyShy]

wow, tparker, you must have gotten burned pretty badly. sorry for you man. i've got the problem that i can't seem to find a guy who doesn't have issues, whether they be from past relationships or actual mental issues. *sighs* i just want a "normal" guy.

[izchan]

Man .. the ever foolish animal.
Do you know why we are on longer in eden?
Because we listen to woman instead of GOD.
Mind you, I am not saying that it was woman that got us kicked out, rather, think about it, we ignored the all powerful, the ONE!!! the big guy and listen to a WOMAN!!!! What kind of a fool is that?

Next, as a man myself I understand that I am weak. ... I am weak and foolish because I keep falling in love with the same kind of woman. The kind that treats me like trash and the kind that thinks that they control every single cell of my body.

Now that I have said my part. I will explain why I am not grumpy

Because I know that at the end. We all die.
thats it, the end, no more sequels.
there is nothing left to think about.
we are dead.

so, the only that I can do is to be happy.
Even if the woman in my life thinks that I am good for nothing other than drive her around, she still cuddles in my arm when she needs warmth. She still makes me breakfast in the morning, because she knows that I am easier to control with a full stomach. She is my partner in this life, and I enjoy it. The who is in control factor is something of an oversight, I don't mind giving up some control as long as the effect of it is not severe.

The basic of any good relationship is this
1. Know who you are.
2. Know who they are.
3. Know that someone has to give.
4. Decide that and live on.

I love my gf, I want to live the rest of my mortal life with her.
But is that enough? Because she too must think the same way. That is the hard part. We make do with what we have and create miracles. I hope she feels the same way, because I have had these kind of discussions with her as well.

Man don't just roll over and die.
Man eats shit if required.
Because that is how things are completed.
and woman, like it or not, completes man.

Thank you and enjoy the thread.

[fwgx]

I've learned a lot about women. I think I've learned exactly how the fall of man occured in the Garden of Eden. Adam and Eve were in the Garden of Eden, and Adam said one day, "Wow, Eve, here we are, at one with nature, at one with God, we'll never age, we'll never die, and all our dreams come true the instant that we have them." And Eve said, "Yeah... it's just not enough is it?"

There are very special teenagers out therethat aren't stupid shallow teeny bopers. I should know, I've found the perfect one.

[rocketgirl]

gee...i wonder if the bible was written by men

[Mr_007]

Yes this girl is .....!!!

[rocketgirl]

mr_007...is a girl?

[Mattress]

I think Adam's actions in the garden of eden are pretty much representative of humanity in general. Do what everyone else is doing, even if you know it's wrong. Blame someone else when you get caught.

[tecton]

here is how it is

if you dont believe in yourself...nobody else will

girls want a guy with confidence.

Material things dont matter...if your girl says otherwise...you dont need her.

Guys dont act all big and bad when they are alone with the girl. Its called showing off. If a guy acts all big and bad when they are alone he is abusive.

Case in point...i joke around with my friends letting their girls boss them around and how i never let that happen...but ill tell you that if i dont call my gf first thing in the morning to see if she wants to do anything than im going to get it later on.

But most of all...dont be a sniviling little pathetic "im such a loser" all the time. Girls dont like that.

And if your not happy then a girl wont solve that. Girls arent meant to bring you happiness...they are meant to share it with you.

[Mattress]

Nicely put Tecton

[rocketgirl]

totally..the "i'm such a looser" bit never works.

[Saiz66]

Hi i needed help with girls and started reading this forum to see if it would help me out... but after reading all these pages i am a very very very old man now and must go to sleep ... j/k... this is what i think: Pain is Love and if that is true than the more the pain is the more love there is... and wats more painful than death?... i met my love of my life at a drinking party and i got shitfaced (NEVER MIX DRINKS!!!!) and she tried to kill me by giving me window cleaner fluid to drink when i was already intoxicated and would drink anything anybody gave me in liquid form... (luckily her girlfriend stopped her and saved my life) since she wanted to cause me the most pain by killing me i think she loves me the greatest and hung on to her till now... it's been almost 3 years and counting... i know this doesnt make much sense but it worked for me some fricken how.. well wat i am trying to say is that u should cherish the people that try to kill you!

P.s. that might be very bad advice (o well).

[Tavernology]

I know what I want from a relationship. I am a nice guy. I am confident in myself, and I am still completely unattached, despite many attempts to rectify my situation. I don't have a heap of issues, but most my friends consider me pretty strange & weird. I don't know what women want. I am me, and I am quite happy being by myself. All I want is somebody who I can love, who will love me, and who I can snuggle up with and wrap my arms around, and be content.

Apparently that's too much to ask of the world. So be it. I no longer care. Be happy with yourself. If you can find somebody to share your short existance with, then enjoy the time you can spend together. I am happy with myself for now. Screw them all. I don't care anymore. I quit.

[brokensaint]

It's because women lack that stabilizing Y chromosome, you may as well predict the lottery with same amount of accuracy.

[steak]

Originally posted by rocketgirl
gee...i wonder if the bible was written by men

Quite probably.

[rocketgirl]

i know...i was just being sarcastic...yes...ther recourse of a weak mind, but it's my forte'.


as far as loving meaning pain...i dont get that...at all. the bit about the love the ones who try to kill you was funny though...but if you think love means pain, you really fall for some mean women.

tavernology....this is good...usually when you give up and convince yourself you dont want a relationship...thats when it happens...when you've given up and have nothing to lose by doing whatever you damn well please. BTW...how old are you? jus curious.

[Saiz66]

anybody know any good jokes?

[rocketgirl]

a blond walks into a bar....ouch.

ok..my jokes are stupid. jokes arent normally funny anyway.

[izchan]

Saiz66 ...

nothing beats praticality ... ... don't just read about it. Do it.

You might say, 'I Cant Get one in the FIRST PLACE!!!!'

well ... thats the point. If you are constantly trying to get into a relationship, you will never get one.

Before any 'boygirl' relationship, there is friendship. If you can't even hold a friend down, then you need to improve before it will ever reach the 'I am in love' relationship.

So don't just read about relationships, go and practice and have one. Once you understand the person, you will then understand their thoughts and needs. With that, you can then decide if for whats it worth, if you are capable to being that person that she/he needs. If you can't even provide the simple needs of theirs, it does matter if you are the king of the world, you will still be unable to attain the relationship that will last.

As for the man is weak portion that I wrote above.
It is suppose to mean that we need to understand ourself as well as our partner, only when we know ourself better, can we participate in a long lasting relationships.

As I said before. Know yourself, know your partner. Only through understanding can a path be found.

Go and have a relationship.
Be it end with tears
or last forever.
it always begin with ourself
and end with faith.

enjoy.

[Saiz66]

hey rocketgirl is that you in the picture?

[ShyShy]

here's an example of a girl i try my damndest not to be:

a good friend of mine "the guy" has been dating a total drama-bitch for the past two years, we've all asked him why puts up with her crap. prime example, the guys (my ex included)planned a huge all guys trip to Fort Lauderdale for spring break. drama-bitch threw the biggest hissy fit on this earth and every day the guys were there, she would call him every day and at practically almost every hour to "check" on him. this drove everybody nuts, including us girlfriends because she would try to get us to check on our guys. i didn't and needn't have to. she just wanted us to be as suspicious as she is. i finally got tired of her incessant phone calls and told her "why the fuck do you want to piss off your man while he's down where beautiful women are everywhere? you're just begging for trouble." and to this day, i'm the only "girlfriend" that knows that they ALL went to strip bars a couple of times. and know what? "the guy" never once, did anything he had to hide. he's been always true to her, and she in returns tightens the noose ever so slightly each day.

[Tavernology]

Rocketgirl, I'm 20, and I didn't mean love means pain, it just will end up in it, and is unavoidable.

My reasons for not giving a rat's arse about anything anymore is related to a number of things. i seriously doubt I'll be looking for a gf for a fair while. If one falls in my lap, then I'll be happy with the development, but My recent experiences have shown me there are more important things in the world than women & sex. Meaningless, shallow relationships are not worth it, and real, deep relationships are too damn hard to develop, and hurt too much when they end.

Changing to be more like what the woman you love says she wants just screws you over completely, then she does the same. Shallow people cannot see the depths of a deep person's soul, as the depths have no mirror in the shallows, and cannot be seen by them.

Sorry for ranting a bit there. Like Izcahn said, "we need to understand ourself as well as our partner, only when we know ourself better, can we participate in a long lasting relationships" Last attempt of mine ddin't have a fucking clue about herself, or what she wants.

[rocketgirl]

Saiz66 yeah..that'd be my big head.

shyshy, that sounds like my brother and sister in law. i think he likes the sensation of having no balls.

tavernology...i still disagree with the love and pain thing. find the right person to love and keep them..where's the pain? Its so simple people cant seem to wrap their minds around it...your not the only one that disagrees, so dont feel attacked. but I assure you, my way works....very well might i add

[Tavernology]

Well, let's just say that in my experience, there is pain in all things.

[rocketgirl]

bummer.

[Tavernology]

My sentiments exactly.
All relationships have their ups & downs, and when the down gets too deep, the participants cannot crawl out of the hole they dug, and it must end. Not all must end, sometimes the relationship can survive anything, and they live happily ever after. Most fon't, and occasionally, both parties agree that it isn't working, and it must end. So both are hurt far less, but it will still hurt to end a relationship somewhere along the line.
"Find the right person to love, and keep them" Sounds simple enough, but these are the two hardest things in the world.
I have yet to find somebody I can truly love, who is willing to feel the same about me. Every relationship I've been in has turned out to be a hollow shell of what I want, and meant nothing, or very little, to the woman I loved at the time. Tell me again how there is no pain in love?

[izchan]

relationships are a game for two.

two must give or it does not work.

if only one give, then the other is a parasite.

If both don't give, then they just want sex.

If one is undecided, then that is a bummer.

but most of all, if one is unfaithful, then might as well find another.

relationship can be attribute to as a simbiotic priciple. If both don't get something from it, it is better off alone.

comprede?

enjoy.

[rocketgirl]

tavernology....dont worry...your still young.

[the_dude4444]

Robin Willianms:Language was developed for one endevor and that is ....
Student: To communicate.
Robin Willianms: No, to woo women" - Dead Poets Society

[Tavernology]

Yeah, I was just kinda pissed off then. I'm better now. Me & a couple of friends spent about 3 hours talking about stuff, having a deep & meaningful, and figuring out the meaning of life kinda thing. We've all had a pretty strange last couple of weeks. None of it bothers me anymore, I realised I don't need anyone or anything to make me happy.

[rocketgirl]

thats good. i think we're all searching to be completed by something or someone...but if your not happy, nothing will make you truely happy....so...right on.

[Tavernology]

Mmm. I just miss having somebody to love, is all. But frankly, I no longer give a rat's arse about any of that shit.

[izchan]

ah denial ...
a good proof that we are still human ...

[Tavernology]

Denial is not denial when it is the truth.

[izchan]

: Denial

what is the truth?
it is so objective.
is it wrong to be right?
or is it right to be wrong?
ah denial ...
the key to sanity ...
as we are only human

My two cents ..

[rocketgirl]

ok..this is getting way too deep.

[Tavernology]

'Deep' is little more than a matter of opinion. Some people would consider this entire thread too deep & complex to even begin to comprehend, while others would find it interesting & stimulating, and able to get them thinking about a great many things.

[the_dude4444]

Deep is reletive, but what you can say about this thread for sure: It's long.

[rocketgirl]

true dat! it sho nuf is long

tavernology..i was just trying to lighten the mood a bit. i find it interesting...otherwise i'd not keep tabs on this thread

[WhitePhantom]

To realize
The value of a sister:
Ask someone Who doesn't have one.

To realize
The value of ten years:
Ask a newly Divorced couple.

To realize
The value of four years:
Ask a graduate.

To realize
The value of one year:
Ask a student who has failed a final exam.

To realize
The value of one month:
Ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.

To realize
The value of one week:
Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize
The value of one hour:
Ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.

To realize
The value of one minute:
Ask a person who has missed the train, bus or plane.

To realize
The value of one-second:
Ask a person who has survived an accident.

To realize
The value of one millisecond:
Ask the person who has won a silver medal in the Olympics.

Time waits for no one.
Treasure every moment you have.
You will treasure it even more when you can share it with someone special.

To realize
The value of a friend:
Lose one.

In other words, live each day as if it were your last, love one another 'til it hurts. "'Tis better to have known love, then never to have loved at all."

My two cents worth...

Peace love and prosperity to all.

[izchan]

swim deeper into the pool, there you will understand that life is not what it seems to be.