Feeling sorry for myself

missyob · 3rd April 2005, 16:22

I am feeling sorry for myself today. Maybe it is more of a reflection on my life than anything.

Has your life turned out the way you wanted it to? If you could change things what would you change?

ElChevelle · 3rd April 2005, 16:25

I would have married Carmen Electra back in 1995 when I had the chance.

missyob · 3rd April 2005, 16:28

Oh damn chev ~~~ You are toooooooooo funny at times.

ElChevelle · 3rd April 2005, 16:31

Oddly enough, I've been getting these.....like visions or something. I work next to the airport, driving cement mixers for those who were curious, and everytime I stop and watch a plane take off I get this odd feeling that I was meant to be in the cockpit. Maybe I was supposed to be a pilot.

Then again, maybe I was supposed to be a hijacker?

MagnumOne · 3rd April 2005, 16:36

Quote:

Originally posted by missyob
I am feeling sorry for myself today. Maybe it is more of a reflection on my life than anything.

In the words of a pretty wise dude...

So do all who live to see such times, but it is not for them to decide. All that we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.........Gandalf.

We all go through times of dissapointment there Missy...How long we decide to leave it uncared for and leading our life is what builds character..

Put the hurdles to the side or step over them..Personally I enjoy stepping over them..

It gives me that..Arrogant Asshole Attitude, I Love So Much..

Cheers Missy

ElChevelle · 3rd April 2005, 16:41

You know what I do when I get depressed.

Grab a cat and shake it real hard.

Oh wait, I don't do that.

sgtfuzzbubble011 · 3rd April 2005, 16:46

I don't feel sorry for myself... I just feel myself.

Oh wait.

missyob · 3rd April 2005, 16:46

you are an ass Chev

I am not depressed everyone so dont worry. I am just reflecting.

Like I always wanted another baby and I am 36 now..... Way too old. I always wanted to get married again. Not just to get married but to have that "special relationship"...

Damn I need to stop watching the cleavers.

ElChevelle · 3rd April 2005, 16:51

I was reflecting earlier too.

DAMN MIRRORS!

ujay · 3rd April 2005, 16:53

Sundays 'll do that to ya. It's the one day in the week when I have nothing in particular to do, so I get reflective.
Usually end up antivirusing and spybotting and defragging or something equally geekish

UJ

sgtfuzzbubble011 · 3rd April 2005, 16:58

Regcleaning.

ElChevelle · 3rd April 2005, 16:59

I usually set aside Sundays for some stiff handiwork.

Bizzeh · 3rd April 2005, 17:02

Quote:

Originally posted by missyob
you are an ass Chev

I am not depressed everyone so dont worry. I am just reflecting.

Like I always wanted another baby and I am 36 now..... Way too old. I always wanted to get married again. Not just to get married but to have that "special relationship"...

Damn I need to stop watching the cleavers.

too old? your not too old to find someone special, my dad is 39 in august and has just gotten engaged (my parents broke up 3 years ago), after he swore he would never get married again because he hates how women are with him.... and mel (his fiance) managed to change how he thought and managed to get HIM to ask HER to get married..

and, im only 20, so, not much of a life for me to look back on yet... ill let you know in about 15 years if i think i not done anything i should have

PulseDriver · 3rd April 2005, 17:16

Chev is just a bender...

And he that used to be a monkey with glasses... *sigh*

Widdykats · 3rd April 2005, 17:32

Quote:

Originally posted by ElChevelle
You know what I do when I get depressed.

Grab a cat and shake it real hard.

Oh wait, I don't do that.

I didn't mind.

Mattress · 3rd April 2005, 18:14

Quote:

Originally posted by missyob
Like I always wanted another baby and I am 36 now..... Way too old.

36 is nowhere close to being too old to have another baby. or did menopause come freakishly early for you? then I could understand being a bit depressed or whatever.

I suggest finding that "special relationship" and get married before having another baby though.

c2R · 3rd April 2005, 18:49

36 isn't too old - my mum was 35 when she had my youngest brother...

As for me - I'd change many decisions I've made over time - I don't regret making any decision, as I've always made the best choice I feel I can make at any given point, with regard to what I knew at the time... but hindsight is a wonderful thing. I think it would also be interesting, speaking in a more detached way... to think about exactly how things would have been different at any point if I had chosen differently.

But then if I had, I might not know what I know now.

Fuck it, I'm going to the pub.

shakey_snake · 3rd April 2005, 18:51

I don't really have any regrets, that said, i'm only 20.

To many people try to make their lives happy, and they're missing out on Joy.

NJK · 3rd April 2005, 19:24

Quote:

Originally posted by Bizzeh
too old? your not too old to find someone special, my dad is 39 in august and has just gotten engaged (my parents broke up 3 years ago), after he swore he would never get married again

That is a very dangerous thing to say, never get married again.

I'm approching 40 and a little over 10 years ago i told everyone the same , I will never marry again.

than the Mrs crossed my path and we've been married almost 7 years. (together for 10 years)

@Missy, there is someone out there that is MR Right for you , all you need to do is find him.

ElChevelle · 3rd April 2005, 19:51

Just because you can't find "Mr. Right", don't settle for "Wotz Left"

Now that I see that in writing, it's really terrible.

Widdykats · 3rd April 2005, 20:42

Yes, but true. "Select! Don't Settle!"

Widdykats: For all your trite sayings!

yenerich · 4th April 2005, 00:16

im happy and satisfied. Of course im sorry for something i do in the past, but now im fine.

Print · 4th April 2005, 00:38

I definatle would have robbed more people

Wait... i'm still young, WOOHOO. I'm off to knock off a convienence store. Peace.

Coman · 4th April 2005, 01:46

Quote:

Originally posted by ElChevelle
I was reflecting earlier too.

DAMN MIRRORS!

izchan · 4th April 2005, 02:45

missy ... its that age thing. i know how you feel. I am near that number enough, and everything becomes a mirror. Its not like depression, but it damm well feels like it. It is reflection. and its about a new choice. Almost like when I hit puberty and asked if I should actually have sex (which is my business not yours). Now you have just reached a stage in life in which you are asking the same kind of questions, those that to you hold significant leverage on how you will live your life.

Take your time. Reflect. no matter how long it takes. but at the end, make a decisiona and then we move on.

thats my take on the whole thing.

and as for the answer to my puberty issue then, I chose to wait for the right woman and fuck my brains out. lucky for me she was experienced ...

night people.

Jay · 4th April 2005, 03:31

Quote:

Originally posted by missyob
Has your life turned out the way you wanted it to?

not yet.

Quote:

Originally posted by missyob
If you could change things what would you change?

said some things that needed to be said. Sadly some people have passed through my life without ever knowing how much I have appreciated them.

Starfire · 4th April 2005, 17:23

Missy,I get in those state of mind too.Im 25<--j/k (37),and say I dont want no more kids,because raising my son since he was 2 and hes now going to be 15 in June has been a really big chore.I love him dearly,but damn,I need a vacation.

Then there are days I would like to have another baby(kind've hoping for a little girl(too bad we cant make thoser choices ourselves

Anyways,if I were to get serious about wanting another child,I would hope to be married with that someone special,due to the fact I refuse to raise another child alone,without a dad around.

What would I have changed in my life,I wouldve waited to have a child at the time I did(He was a pill baby)Because I wasnt married,nor was the relationship all that great later on in the years,he was quite the abuser*although Im the type you fucking hit me yer going down yerself.I dont let any man hit me and get away with it.BUT....thats all I ever seemed to find in my life so I got tired of the dating scene and stayed solo for many years now.But,thats what I would've have done over was waited to have a child where I would be married,in a decent marriage,cause I know no marriage is perfect,and would've also been finationaly set.

.

I had my son when I was 23,and I was so scared of not being a good mom,due to past history situation,but I've done the best to my ability,and hes respectful to adults,other kids,hes ok,but needs to work on it.Hes also ADHD and Im Bi-Polar,manic-depression so we bang heads,but over all,I love him with all my heart and will always love him.

Geez,Missy ya got me typing an awful lot,we need to chat more often,we have many things in common.my aim sn is chibigotera9.You rock lady.

*Hugs*

missyob · 5th April 2005, 13:03

Thanks honey.

We will chat soon.

I can relate to you in so many ways

Hugs,
~ Missy

3rd April 2005, 16:22	#1
missyob Angel of Winamp Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: The Winamp House Posts: 4,578	Feeling sorry for myself I am feeling sorry for myself today. Maybe it is more of a reflection on my life than anything. Has your life turned out the way you wanted it to? If you could change things what would you change?

3rd April 2005, 17:16	#14
PulseDriver w3 addict (Major Dude) Join Date: May 2004 Location: Norway Posts: 1,806	Chev is just a bender... And he that used to be a monkey with glasses... sigh 09 F9 11 01 9D 74 E8 5B D8 41 56 C3 63 56 81 C0

3rd April 2005, 18:49	#17
c2R Stereotype? (Forum King) Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Ware, England Posts: 3,511	36 isn't too old - my mum was 35 when she had my youngest brother... As for me - I'd change many decisions I've made over time - I don't regret making any decision, as I've always made the best choice I feel I can make at any given point, with regard to what I knew at the time... but hindsight is a wonderful thing. I think it would also be interesting, speaking in a more detached way... to think about exactly how things would have been different at any point if I had chosen differently. But then if I had, I might not know what I know now. Fuck it, I'm going to the pub. lights out for darker skies # forums.winamp.com boinc team # tms

3rd April 2005, 18:51	#18
shakey_snake Forum Domo Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Everyone, get over here for the picture! Posts: 4,313	I don't really have any regrets, that said, i'm only 20. To many people try to make their lives happy, and they're missing out on Joy. elevatorladyelevatorladyelevatorladyelevatorladyelevatorladylevitateme

4th April 2005, 02:45	#25
izchan Major Dude Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Malaysia Posts: 1,503	missy ... its that age thing. i know how you feel. I am near that number enough, and everything becomes a mirror. Its not like depression, but it damm well feels like it. It is reflection. and its about a new choice. Almost like when I hit puberty and asked if I should actually have sex (which is my business not yours). Now you have just reached a stage in life in which you are asking the same kind of questions, those that to you hold significant leverage on how you will live your life. Take your time. Reflect. no matter how long it takes. but at the end, make a decisiona and then we move on. thats my take on the whole thing. and as for the answer to my puberty issue then, I chose to wait for the right woman and fuck my brains out. lucky for me she was experienced ... night people. Sometimes it is just being me that counts By: izchan

3rd April 2005, 16:25	#2
ElChevelle Moderator Alumni Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: the MANCANNON! Posts: 22,448	I would have married Carmen Electra back in 1995 when I had the chance.

3rd April 2005, 16:28	#3
missyob Angel of Winamp Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: The Winamp House Posts: 4,578	Oh damn chev ~~~ You are toooooooooo funny at times.

3rd April 2005, 16:31	#4
ElChevelle Moderator Alumni Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: the MANCANNON! Posts: 22,448	Oddly enough, I've been getting these.....like visions or something. I work next to the airport, driving cement mixers for those who were curious, and everytime I stop and watch a plane take off I get this odd feeling that I was meant to be in the cockpit. Maybe I was supposed to be a pilot. Then again, maybe I was supposed to be a hijacker?

3rd April 2005, 16:41	#6
ElChevelle Moderator Alumni Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: the MANCANNON! Posts: 22,448	You know what I do when I get depressed. Grab a cat and shake it real hard. Oh wait, I don't do that.

3rd April 2005, 16:46	#7
sgtfuzzbubble011 Join Date: Jun 2000 Posts: 60,839	I don't feel sorry for myself... I just feel myself. Oh wait.

3rd April 2005, 16:46	#8
missyob Angel of Winamp Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: The Winamp House Posts: 4,578	you are an ass Chev I am not depressed everyone so dont worry. I am just reflecting. Like I always wanted another baby and I am 36 now..... Way too old. I always wanted to get married again. Not just to get married but to have that "special relationship"... Damn I need to stop watching the cleavers.

3rd April 2005, 16:51	#9
ElChevelle Moderator Alumni Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: the MANCANNON! Posts: 22,448	I was reflecting earlier too. DAMN MIRRORS!

3rd April 2005, 16:53	#10
ujay Forum King Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: London Posts: 6,072	Sundays 'll do that to ya. It's the one day in the week when I have nothing in particular to do, so I get reflective. Usually end up antivirusing and spybotting and defragging or something equally geekish UJ

3rd April 2005, 16:58	#11
sgtfuzzbubble011 Join Date: Jun 2000 Posts: 60,839	Regcleaning.

3rd April 2005, 16:59	#12
ElChevelle Moderator Alumni Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: the MANCANNON! Posts: 22,448	I usually set aside Sundays for some stiff handiwork.

3rd April 2005, 19:51	#20
ElChevelle Moderator Alumni Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: the MANCANNON! Posts: 22,448	Just because you can't find "Mr. Right", don't settle for "Wotz Left" Now that I see that in writing, it's really terrible.

3rd April 2005, 20:42	#21
Widdykats The Forum Slut Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: A place that invites a post pumping whore from NY Posts: 15,787	Yes, but true. "Select! Don't Settle!" Widdykats: For all your trite sayings!

4th April 2005, 00:16	#22
yenerich Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 295	im happy and satisfied. Of course im sorry for something i do in the past, but now im fine.

4th April 2005, 00:38	#23
Print Forum King Join Date: May 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 3,215	I definatle would have robbed more people Wait... i'm still young, WOOHOO. I'm off to knock off a convienence store. Peace.

4th April 2005, 17:23	#27
Starfire Dominus Deus Best Friend and Play Toy (Senior Member) Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: NY Posts: 287	Missyob can I relate Missy,I get in those state of mind too.Im 25<--j/k (37),and say I dont want no more kids,because raising my son since he was 2 and hes now going to be 15 in June has been a really big chore.I love him dearly,but damn,I need a vacation. Then there are days I would like to have another baby(kind've hoping for a little girl(too bad we cant make thoser choices ourselves Anyways,if I were to get serious about wanting another child,I would hope to be married with that someone special,due to the fact I refuse to raise another child alone,without a dad around. What would I have changed in my life,I wouldve waited to have a child at the time I did(He was a pill baby)Because I wasnt married,nor was the relationship all that great later on in the years,he was quite the abuseralthough Im the type you fucking hit me yer going down yerself.I dont let any man hit me and get away with it.BUT....thats all I ever seemed to find in my life so I got tired of the dating scene and stayed solo for many years now.But,thats what I would've have done over was waited to have a child where I would be married,in a decent marriage,cause I know no marriage is perfect,and would've also been finationaly set. . I had my son when I was 23,and I was so scared of not being a good mom,due to past history situation,but I've done the best to my ability,and hes respectful to adults,other kids,hes ok,but needs to work on it.Hes also ADHD and Im Bi-Polar,manic-depression so we bang heads,but over all,I love him with all my heart and will always love him. Geez,Missy ya got me typing an awful lot,we need to chat more often,we have many things in common.my aim sn is chibigotera9.You rock lady. Hugs* If your world doesn't allow you to dream,move to one where you can.

5th April 2005, 13:03	#28
missyob Angel of Winamp Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: The Winamp House Posts: 4,578	Thanks honey. We will chat soon. I can relate to you in so many ways Hugs, ~ Missy

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