iTunes in a remote (UNC) location to import library

[LTParis]

So as an Andriod owner I am very intrigued with the wifi sync option, and when you include all the bloat that iTunes has accumulated over the years I am thinking of making the switch, but I have some unique needs that I am not sure can be overcome.

My wife will likely be using iTunes since she has a iPhone, so I need to keep it on one computer. No big deal since I have a separate computer and I can just use iTunes as the music manager there, but do a watch directory over on mine to the common music folder share.

The problem is I want to import my iTunes library on the other computer since I have meticulously rated my songs. But it seems by default WinAmp can only scan what it thinks is the local iTunes music folder.

Is there any way to import my library? My only real concern is ratings.