Horrendous issues syncing my Nexus 4

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Hi there, I apologize in advance for this rant, but if you'll bear with me.

I just got a Nexus 4 and I'm having some serious issues syncing with my winamp library. First of all, I was only able to USB sync at all by turning on USB debugging, I assume because the Nexus 4 can't be recognized as a USB mass storage device. I can wireless sync, which is slow as hell, and some songs will fail to transfer in streaks, but in BOTH cases, my PC can't properly recognize what's on my phone. I press sync and it will say 200 songs need to be transferred, 40 need to be deleted. I sync and then it will say 100 need to be transferred, 7 need to be deleted. Every time I sync the numbers go up and down at random and if I check my phone, it's pretty obvious there are songs missing. If I switch back to USB sync the numbers jump up to something crazy like 300 need to be transferred and 100 deleted. My whole library has about 850 songs.

All I want is a perfect sync, damn it, this is so broken.