confused

[Huehuetenango]

i'm confused, big surprise

today a friend of mine introduced me to a girl she thinks i should go out with
she'd told this girl a lot about me (and apparently after she had the girl said two things: 1)you know a lot about him, and 2)he sounds to good for me [i swear to god, that's what my friend told me])
anyway, sorry, that tangent was just a bit of an ego booster for me, but back to why i'm confused: i met the girl, we talked for a while, then parted ways, and now i don't know what to do, wait for my friend to get back to me, call my friend and ask,
I DON'T KNOW!!!!

any advice?

[griffinn]

You forgot to tell us what you want.

If you want to start a relationship with her, just call her. Don't have her number? Get it through your friend.

[Huehuetenango]

you read my mind, dude

i think i do, anway


basically, i'm asking: does anyone think it would be a good idea to call her so soon and after having not talked to her for long?

[missyob]

Life is really short. Dont waste time, just call her. Why wait? Plus, if she has any interest in you, it will make her feel special that you wanted to talk to her so soon. Girls are all about emotion.

Good Luck Sweetheart.
~ Missy

[Huehuetenango]

well then, assuming she didn't say anyting too awful to my friend when they discuss it tomorrow (as my friend assured me they would), i will ask for the phone number

here's hoping

[papadoc]

originally posted by Huehuetenango
he sounds to good for me [i swear to god, that's what my friend told me]

If she thinks that Huehuetenango,
then all you have to do is be yourself,
and she'll love being with you.
If I were you I'd go for it.

[Bilbo Baggins]

hue, I hope you call her because I do not want these forums to suffer another JNS

[Rocker]

your really beating up JNS today arn't you behind his back

lol

[binary hero]

go and call her (I agree, we don't need another JNS - has he asked her out yet? or is he still wussing out about it?)

[I have a huge]

[WolfieD]

Ask her out. If she says no, hit her on the back of the head with a large rock, and leave.

What you do inbetween hitting and leaving is completely optional.

Also, please feel free to rearrange any of those suggestions as you see fit. If you wanna hit her in the head first, and then ask her out, be my guest.

[Bilbo Baggins]

JNS is a good bloke, I just wish he had a little mroe courage. Having said that, it took me about 2 months to summon up enough courage to ask my girlfriend out

[Huehuetenango]

so far nothing to say, because my friend who introduced me to her is still at work
just waiting for her to get home so i can call for the number

yeah, i was confused about the jns bashing going on, anyone care to explain?

papadoc, thanks for the words of encouragement, but she said that after hearing about me from my friend who has been known to exaggerate a bit

[Bilbo Baggins]

if you had been around Backstage earlier this month, then you would have known about JNS been begged, pleaded, ordered and told to phone a girl that he rreally fancied to ask her out. As far as we know, nothing happened...

[Huehuetenango]

i wasn't around backstage dude,
i'm not a mod, remember?
or is there something that i haven't been told?


well, i jsut got off the phone w/ my friend, she didn't see the girl today, and doesn't have her phone number with her, damnit

[Bilbo Baggins]

I meant Bitchlist

Sorry folks.

[papadoc]

Have you ever seen one of those little toys
that you wind up and let it go.
Every time it runs into something
it turns around and takes off until it hits
something else, then it takes off again.
It just keeps bouncing off everything it hits
but keeps on going?
Back and forth and back and forth.

Bless his heart, but that's what jns looked like
trying to decide whether to call a girl.

He wore all of us out.

[Huehuetenango]

did he ever?

hey, jns, how'd it all work out?

[I have a huge]

He's still dating his right hand.
Apparently that's all the gutless lad can hook up with.

[Huehuetenango]

ouch, harsh, man

[papadoc]

Uncle Sam seems like he's in a bad mood today.
What's up Uncle Sam...
I care...

[deathazre]

I wonder if a sex change would help jns work up his courage.

you know what I mean, switching hands and all

but I shouldn't be talking, every time a girl comes on to me I turn them down because I think they're faking it...

[bloozbone]

Huehue: Bottom line, there are MANY fish in the sea. I believe in destiny and kharma. If this one didn't materialize, it's because another one's meant for you. It may take a while, but patience is a virtue. As Papadoc said earlier in the thread, "Be yourself". That's the kharma part. You'll attract compatible company only if you're YOU (and you did say you want a relationship --- it won't last if you're trying to be something that you're not).

Good luck. Doesn't sound like you'll need it though. From what I can tell, seems like you've got your head screwed on straight.

[I have a huge]

Originally posted by papadoc
Uncle Sam seems like he's in a bad mood today.
What's up Uncle Sam...
I care...

Studly Sammy got tired of hearing the day-after-day, should I/shouldn't I whimpering of heinous Jns

[Huehuetenango]

so he's a conflicted teen male, big deal

dont' say you never did something like that during your teenage years, being so unsure about whether or not to ask a girl out

and i think my friend is avoiding the subject of what the girl thought of me. That can't be good news

[I have a huge]

Originally posted by Huehuetenango
dont' say you never did something like that during your teenage years, being so unsure about whether or not to ask a girl out

Nope!
Either ask her out or suffer the pain of losing her for all of eternity.
Bottom line, which will it be?
Either step up to the plate and be a man or live the rest of your life asking A/S/L on the internet

[I have a huge]

Let me admit this much.
I hesitated asking this one chick out for about a month.
Turned out she was dying for me to ask her out and when all was said and done we realized, we had already wasted a month's time when we shoulda been bumpin' uglies.
Never again will I hesitate in asking ANY girl out.
If she says no, big fucking deal! You move on. Don't wallow in self pity over one girl's mistake. Christ, next thing I know someone's gonna be posting a thread saying that they want to give themselves a manual lobotomy with a .44 because some girl said no

[Huehuetenango]

hmmm
i finally got through to my friend and asked what the girl thought of me
apparently she said i seemed like a nice person, what she'd expected, but that she hadn't talked me for that long

i have no idea what that means, and can't ask my friend since she's now in exams and refuses to go anywhere near a telephone until the 29th

[SNYder]

Originally posted by WolfieD
Ask her out. If she says no, hit her on the back of the head with a large rock, and leave.

What you do inbetween hitting and leaving is completely optional.

Also, please feel free to rearrange any of those suggestions as you see fit. If you wanna hit her in the head first, and then ask her out, be my guest.

[WolfieD]

YAY! Snyder quoted me! JOY!

[fwgx]

Originally posted by papadoc
Have you ever seen one of those little toys
that you wind up and let it go.
Every time it runs into something
it turns around and takes off until it hits
something else, then it takes off again.
It just keeps bouncing off everything it hits
but keeps on going?
Back and forth and back and forth.

Bless his heart, but that's what jns looked like
trying to decide whether to call a girl.

He wore all of us out.

I had a lecturer last year that did that. He walked up to the wall right close, turned around then walked to the desk turned around etc etc. He wasn't really with it and was racist and not very fit to teach. But this walking thing was funny

[iomegajaz]

Originally posted by Bilbo Baggins
Having said that, it took me about 2 months to summon up enough courage to ask my girlfriend out

Here's the trick (worked for me): Make them want you so much that THEY ask YOU out. Does WONDERS for the ego...
I love my gurl

[KelseyB]

but jaz- some of us guys here (mainly me) cant exacly walk up to a girl and make her want us terribly just by paying vast amounts of money (he he, j/k)... uh... i mean looking at her. whats your method for the madness? inquiring (desperate) minds want to know.

[iomegajaz]

The first time my current girlfriend came across me, I was unconscious, lying in my own vomit-orific filth, under a number of icky sticky blankets and jackets, at about 1am, after virtually skulling half a bottle of Beam. I don't know why, but she liked what she saw.

At parties, I usually end up finding a soft surface of some sort (if it's a mate's place, quite often the couch/foldout) and lying down. Apparently, according to the girl I was getting to know just as my current g/f started taking an interest, this is in some way attractive. My autism allows me to not give a fuck about pretty much anything, and as such I can quite happily sit (or sleep) in a corner somewhere, not caring if I get included in conversations or not. Conversations usually develop around me, as more and more party people get interested by the weird guy in the corner and want to check him out.

Some of these people are girls, and some of them are more interested than others. Two of these, so far, have wanted to take things further. One I'm with at the moment, the other (according to my current) thought she could never be good enough for me (she apparently treats guys like shit, doesn't risk getting too close, etc), and just last month accepted her bf's marriage proposal.

Someone tell me to shut up. No, not YOU. If YOU do, I'll hurt you.

Does that make sense? Was I writing in English? Ubu mu gamuk sapi?

What I'm trying to say is: I'm 20. Until about 6 months ago, I'd never had a girlfriend, much less ever had sex. I didn't look, and for a long time, I didn't find anyone because of this. But, because my gf took a risk and asked me out (actually, she kissed me, then she asked me out, then we fooled around, then she told her bf it was over, but whatever ), I'm with the person I should be with, and I didn't need to wade through a thousand messy, painful relationships to get to her.

Not bad eh?
-jaz

[Curi0us_George]

Well, I don't know about the girls, but I'm certainly attracted to you now that I know what a filthy drunk you are.

[iomegajaz]

Uh-oh. Alcoholism having same effect on guys as girls. I'm fucked. No, wrong word. I'm buggered. Eww, even worse.

BOTHER!!!!!
jaz

[Curi0us_George]

Originally posted by iomegajaz
I'm fucked. No, wrong word. I'm buggered. Eww, even worse.

I think `eww` fits.

[KelseyB]

Yah. i agree. ewww fits.

hummmm. puddle of my own vomit....

i already got the "that weird guy" thing going on, so alls i have to do now is lie down. aight. sweet. ill try it sometime.