Old 3rd April 2005, 16:22   #1
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Feeling sorry for myself

I am feeling sorry for myself today. Maybe it is more of a reflection on my life than anything.

Has your life turned out the way you wanted it to? If you could change things what would you change?
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Old 3rd April 2005, 16:25   #2
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Old 3rd April 2005, 16:28   #3
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Old 3rd April 2005, 16:31   #4
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Oddly enough, I've been getting these.....like visions or something. I work next to the airport, driving cement mixers for those who were curious, and everytime I stop and watch a plane take off I get this odd feeling that I was meant to be in the cockpit. Maybe I was supposed to be a pilot.



Then again, maybe I was supposed to be a hijacker?
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Old 3rd April 2005, 16:36   #5
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself

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I am feeling sorry for myself today. Maybe it is more of a reflection on my life than anything.
In the words of a pretty wise dude...

So do all who live to see such times, but it is not for them to decide. All that we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.........Gandalf.


We all go through times of dissapointment there Missy...How long we decide to leave it uncared for and leading our life is what builds character..

Put the hurdles to the side or step over them..Personally I enjoy stepping over them..

It gives me that..Arrogant Asshole Attitude, I Love So Much..

Cheers Missy
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Old 3rd April 2005, 16:41   #6
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You know what I do when I get depressed.

Grab a cat and shake it real hard.








Oh wait, I don't do that.
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Old 3rd April 2005, 16:46   #7
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I don't feel sorry for myself... I just feel myself.

Oh wait.
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Old 3rd April 2005, 16:46   #8
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you are an ass Chev

I am not depressed everyone so dont worry. I am just reflecting.

Like I always wanted another baby and I am 36 now..... Way too old. I always wanted to get married again. Not just to get married but to have that "special relationship"...

Damn I need to stop watching the cleavers.
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Old 3rd April 2005, 16:51   #9
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I was reflecting earlier too.





















DAMN MIRRORS!
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Old 3rd April 2005, 16:53   #10
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Sundays 'll do that to ya. It's the one day in the week when I have nothing in particular to do, so I get reflective.
Usually end up antivirusing and spybotting and defragging or something equally geekish

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Old 3rd April 2005, 16:58   #11
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Old 3rd April 2005, 16:59   #12
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Old 3rd April 2005, 17:02   #13
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you are an ass Chev

I am not depressed everyone so dont worry. I am just reflecting.

Like I always wanted another baby and I am 36 now..... Way too old. I always wanted to get married again. Not just to get married but to have that "special relationship"...

Damn I need to stop watching the cleavers.
too old? your not too old to find someone special, my dad is 39 in august and has just gotten engaged (my parents broke up 3 years ago), after he swore he would never get married again because he hates how women are with him.... and mel (his fiance) managed to change how he thought and managed to get HIM to ask HER to get married..

and, im only 20, so, not much of a life for me to look back on yet... ill let you know in about 15 years if i think i not done anything i should have
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Old 3rd April 2005, 17:16   #14
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Chev is just a bender...

And he that used to be a monkey with glasses... *sigh*

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Old 3rd April 2005, 17:32   #15
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You know what I do when I get depressed.

Grab a cat and shake it real hard.








Oh wait, I don't do that.
I didn't mind.
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Old 3rd April 2005, 18:14   #16
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Like I always wanted another baby and I am 36 now..... Way too old.
36 is nowhere close to being too old to have another baby. or did menopause come freakishly early for you? then I could understand being a bit depressed or whatever.

I suggest finding that "special relationship" and get married before having another baby though.
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36 isn't too old - my mum was 35 when she had my youngest brother...

As for me - I'd change many decisions I've made over time - I don't regret making any decision, as I've always made the best choice I feel I can make at any given point, with regard to what I knew at the time... but hindsight is a wonderful thing. I think it would also be interesting, speaking in a more detached way... to think about exactly how things would have been different at any point if I had chosen differently.

But then if I had, I might not know what I know now.

Fuck it, I'm going to the pub.
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Old 3rd April 2005, 18:51   #18
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I don't really have any regrets, that said, i'm only 20.
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Old 3rd April 2005, 19:24   #19
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too old? your not too old to find someone special, my dad is 39 in august and has just gotten engaged (my parents broke up 3 years ago), after he swore he would never get married again
That is a very dangerous thing to say, never get married again.

I'm approching 40 and a little over 10 years ago i told everyone the same , I will never marry again.

than the Mrs crossed my path and we've been married almost 7 years. (together for 10 years)

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Just because you can't find "Mr. Right", don't settle for "Wotz Left"


Now that I see that in writing, it's really terrible.
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I was reflecting earlier too.

DAMN MIRRORS!

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missy ... its that age thing. i know how you feel. I am near that number enough, and everything becomes a mirror. Its not like depression, but it damm well feels like it. It is reflection. and its about a new choice. Almost like when I hit puberty and asked if I should actually have sex (which is my business not yours). Now you have just reached a stage in life in which you are asking the same kind of questions, those that to you hold significant leverage on how you will live your life.

Take your time. Reflect. no matter how long it takes. but at the end, make a decisiona and then we move on.

thats my take on the whole thing.

and as for the answer to my puberty issue then, I chose to wait for the right woman and fuck my brains out. lucky for me she was experienced ...

night people.

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Old 4th April 2005, 03:31   #26
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself

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Has your life turned out the way you wanted it to?
not yet.
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If you could change things what would you change?
said some things that needed to be said. Sadly some people have passed through my life without ever knowing how much I have appreciated them.
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Missyob can I relate

Missy,I get in those state of mind too.Im 25<--j/k (37),and say I dont want no more kids,because raising my son since he was 2 and hes now going to be 15 in June has been a really big chore.I love him dearly,but damn,I need a vacation.

Then there are days I would like to have another baby(kind've hoping for a little girl(too bad we cant make thoser choices ourselves Anyways,if I were to get serious about wanting another child,I would hope to be married with that someone special,due to the fact I refuse to raise another child alone,without a dad around.

What would I have changed in my life,I wouldve waited to have a child at the time I did(He was a pill baby)Because I wasnt married,nor was the relationship all that great later on in the years,he was quite the abuser*although Im the type you fucking hit me yer going down yerself.I dont let any man hit me and get away with it.BUT....thats all I ever seemed to find in my life so I got tired of the dating scene and stayed solo for many years now.But,thats what I would've have done over was waited to have a child where I would be married,in a decent marriage,cause I know no marriage is perfect,and would've also been finationaly set. .

I had my son when I was 23,and I was so scared of not being a good mom,due to past history situation,but I've done the best to my ability,and hes respectful to adults,other kids,hes ok,but needs to work on it.Hes also ADHD and Im Bi-Polar,manic-depression so we bang heads,but over all,I love him with all my heart and will always love him.


Geez,Missy ya got me typing an awful lot,we need to chat more often,we have many things in common.my aim sn is chibigotera9.You rock lady.

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Thanks honey.

We will chat soon.

I can relate to you in so many ways

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