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Old 14th April 2006, 04:18   #1
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Why are guys attracted to bitchy girls and the nice ones always get hurt?

why r guys attracted to the bitchy girls? Do you think it is a challenge or something?
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Old 14th April 2006, 04:25   #2
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Old 14th April 2006, 04:47   #3
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I don't think there's a pattern like that. I think we just remember the bad relationships more than the good ones, that's all, so it just seems like some people are attracted to mean people more than others.

I've had my share of bad relationships with mean women, and then I've had great relationships with beautiful and kind women like you.

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Old 14th April 2006, 06:44   #4
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Re: Why are guys attracted to bitchy girls and the nice ones always get hurt?

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why r guys attracted to the bitchy girls?
i'm a guy and i have no idea why that is. i tend to not like bitchy girls because of the bitchyness. the bitchyness is a turn off for me.

somehow i know how to make girls happy even though i've never been in a relationship.

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Old 14th April 2006, 07:49   #6
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Re: Re: Why are guys attracted to bitchy girls and the nice ones always get hurt?

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somehow i know how to make girls happy even though i've never been in a relationship.
Hmmm...I'd probably make girls happier if I didn't get into relationships with them, either.


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Old 14th April 2006, 08:07   #7
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There are three types of girls, in my view:

1. Bitchy type
2. Normal type
3. Sweet type

The Bitch type are generally very talkative, and if they have a good look, they are really a turn-on for us guys (someone we can fantasize a lot about). The downside to it is that they are bitchy - if you get into a relationship with one of them, they will end up controlling and manipulating you for the rest of your life or until you are totally miserable!!!

The sweet girls are very kind/gentle and also very caring - they will listen to you most of the time and mostly won't oppose anything you have to say. The downside to it is that as they are very sweet and do not offer any sort of "challenge", people get easily bored with them after a short time & become unwilling to pursue a long-term relationship.

These are the two main reasons why I will always choose a Normal type of girl (who have the positive aspects of both types) & I think the majority of females in the world are of the Normal type.
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Old 14th April 2006, 08:13   #8
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An even better question: Why do girls always go for the assholes?
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Old 14th April 2006, 08:31   #9
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An even better question: Why do girls always go for the assholes?
You said it, brother.

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Old 14th April 2006, 09:02   #10
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Old 14th April 2006, 09:04   #11
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No I'm not.

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Old 14th April 2006, 10:27   #12
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I don't like bitchy people. Men can be bitchy, too. They just call it picky. I can call it pricky.
I think there are more types of bitchy than just one.
The overly talkative, rabid bitchy type; most guys I know don't care for either. Overly sweet people can have their own agenda working and therfore may not be trusted.
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Old 14th April 2006, 11:17   #13
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They're only bitchy till you fuck em proper. Once they learn who the giver of an orgasm is they submit to your will.
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Old 14th April 2006, 11:34   #14
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Old 14th April 2006, 11:40   #15
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Old 14th April 2006, 12:03   #17
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An even better question: Why do girls always go for the assholes?
True that.
Why can't the trailer trash queens take up all the wifebeaters so that us nice guys can get a good girl.
I'm sick and tired of hearing about stupid girls who stay with an abusive guy. That's why I insist on showering only my left hand with flowers and candy
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Old 14th April 2006, 12:04   #18
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Old 14th April 2006, 14:41   #19
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Old 14th April 2006, 15:11   #20
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Re: Why are guys attracted to bitchy girls and the nice ones always get hurt?

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why r guys attracted to the bitchy girls? Do you think it is a challenge or something?
I'm not. In fact I don't think I could stand a "bitchy" girl.

I don't know, though. What exactly would you consider a "bitchy girl"?

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Old 14th April 2006, 15:24   #21
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Why are girls attracted to jackass guys and the nice guys always get hurt?

Maybe if the nice guys and the nice girls would get together instead of always being attracted to the bitchy/jackass ones, everybody could be happy.

Unfortunately, people tend to want what they can't have.


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Old 14th April 2006, 15:27   #22
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True that.
Why can't the trailer trash queens take up all the wifebeaters so that us nice guys can get a good girl.
I'm sick and tired of hearing about stupid girls who stay with an abusive guy. That's why I insist on showering only my left hand with flowers and candy
Amen to that brother Chev! (Although I don't mess with the flowers and candy.)

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Old 14th April 2006, 16:15   #23
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There are three types of girls, in my view:

1. Bitchy type
2. Normal type
3. Sweet type

The Bitch type are generally very talkative, and if they have a good look, they are really a turn-on for us guys (someone we can fantasize a lot about). The downside to it is that they are bitchy - if you get into a relationship with one of them, they will end up controlling and manipulating you for the rest of your life or until you are totally miserable!!!

The sweet girls are very kind/gentle and also very caring - they will listen to you most of the time and mostly won't oppose anything you have to say. The downside to it is that as they are very sweet and do not offer any sort of "challenge", people get easily bored with them after a short time & become unwilling to pursue a long-term relationship.

These are the two main reasons why I will always choose a Normal type of girl (who have the positive aspects of both types) & I think the majority of females in the world are of the Normal type.

That was some pretty incredible insite!
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Old 14th April 2006, 16:30   #24
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A "Sweet Girl " is either unattrative or neurotic as hell.

I may or may not be a good person, but I'm not sweet.
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Old 14th April 2006, 16:35   #25
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Well the sweet ones don't typically have the looks to be a bitch so they have to make up with for it with some kind of personality.
If you are pretty you usually get what you want and you can afford to treat others like shit because they "want" to be near you. If not, you are at an automatic disadvantage and need to compensate for it with your "other" talents.

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Old 14th April 2006, 16:36   #26
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I love the sweet types. I hope I'll marry one some day.

There are enough good looking ones out there and they don't have to be neurotic.
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Re: Re: Why are guys attracted to bitchy girls and the nice ones always get hurt?

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What exactly would you consider a "bitchy girl"?
Here's my own definition...

You meet her, and she's pretty and smart and sweet. Polish/German, 5'2", 100lbs, platinum blonde hair, transparent blue eyes, supermodel looks, magnetic personality, sexy Slavic accent, well-traveled and interesting. You start dating. After a while you fall in love and the relationship grows. A short time later you move in together. Everything's going great. Just to have a name, let's call her "Eva".

A few weeks after you're living together you start getting threats. She begins to become someone you don't know...certainly not the person you met and fell in love with. You wake up in the middle of the night and she's standing over the bed with a 10" chef's knife, looking at you as if to wonder how your insides would look spread across the sheets.

After this kind of thing happens a few times, you call the Boulder Country Sheriff's Department to have her "removed". They come and - after she packs her things - escort her away.

In coming weeks you get phone calls - her threatening to have someone kill you. After this happens a few times you get a temporary restraining order (TRO), which soon becomes a permanent restraining order (PRO).

Another death threat later - and also after seeing her cruise by slowly in front of your house a couple of times - you call the police again to report it. The police arrest her and charge her with a class-A misdemeanor for violation of a permanent restraining order. While the police are running her record, they find out she's here from Europe on a long-since expired visa (expired by five years) - she's an illegal alien. So they contact the INS.

When an illegal alien commits a crime - especially anything violent or which includes threats of violence - the INS escalates the priority of that case. The INS coordinates with the DA's office to drop the outstanding charges against her. They put her on a plane to Hamburg, Germany (her last known country of legal residence), notifying her that she's being permanently deported from the United States. She can never return to this country and she can never get another US visa.

So yeah. That's my definition of a "bitchy girl".

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Old 14th April 2006, 17:49   #28
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I think sweet girls can be very attractive. My girl is very sweet and I find her very hard to keep my eyes off of. However she can be a bit dull here and there and I do get a little bored. I still love her and if I ever feel a little bored, I just change things up a little and try to get her in the mood with some romance. If you wanna see what my girl looks like, there should be an "almost naughty" picture in the "Post yer picture" thread.

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Old 14th April 2006, 18:26   #29
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yea my current girlfriend is real sweet and is concerned that I will get bored with her, so obviously she may have had experience with other guys feeling that way. So far I haven't been bored with her at all.
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yea my current girlfriend is real sweet and is concerned that I will get bored with her, so obviously she may have had experience with other guys feeling that way. So far I haven't been bored with her at all.
Yeah and in my experience if you ever do get her over the insecurity crap, that'll be just about the time she feels empowered and leaves you for some asshole......like some twisted self fulfilling prophesy.

Sorta like, "I wouldn't belong to a club that would have me as a member."

Ya love em. you care about em, and often you roll over see them sleeping, kiss em and think "What bullshit is she gonna start today over nothing?".

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Yeah and in my experience if you ever do get her over the insecurity crap, that'll be just about the time she feels empowered and leaves you for some asshole......
Thankfully mine is insanely insecure. Really not sure if I should be thankful about that but it does mean she will always need me and I don't have any fear of her leaving. I should probably inform you folks that she had an accident when she was three and has mild brain damage. Still pretty much normal, just that some things are hard for her to grasp. Like how good looking she is.

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Amen to that brother Chev! (Although I don't mess with the flowers and candy.)
You are shallow and insensitive.


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^ Yeah, sure!
Not all sweet girls are neurotic...but there's always sumpin'..you know..sumpin' missing..
I, however, don't subscribe to all great looking girls or women are bitchy. Some know, what you give; is what you get!
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Old 14th April 2006, 22:25   #35
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Some know, what you give; is what you get!
Never worked that way for me
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lets go a little further:

1. Maybe the hot women are classified as 'bitchy' simply because they are hot and are being treated like big slabs of meat by society. I know I would get pissed pretty quick if I always had some drunk in a wife beeter hooting at me every time he saw me.

2. Maybe the sweet ones are always less attractive because they have never been 'used for their looks' and thus have noting to be bitter about .... Plus society will treat these people differently as well.

3. Maybe there actually have been numerous studies done on all of this that we should read up on!!!

4. Maybe it also has a twee bit to do with hormones (cuz those make ya bitchy!): http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/4396230.stm
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The bitchy ones just need good deep dickin. Nuff said. 3-4 hours doggy style (with lube cause they do dry out) is all it takes.
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I'll keep that in mind.


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The bitchy ones just need good deep dickin. Nuff said. 3-4 hours doggy style (with lube cause they do dry out) is all it takes.
I am wondering why on earth you wanted them to use lube on you. In fact why you would let one o dem brokeback you in the first place is beyond me.

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