Old 17th November 2002, 20:03   #1
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Pointers on a date?

Ok guys and girls its time for BT to ask your help in your past dating rituals

I am planning on asking girl out tomorrow and would like pointers on how to make a good impression, but to prove that I ain't a pming stalker to others (I know who you are mahahhah!!)

Also a couple more questions to ask

can different races last as a relationship ...like asian (indian) and white, I know their religion much have a law or something but not sure

Where would you take a girl out to

I've come up with a couple of places...cinema, pub, but looking for more things to try out
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Old 17th November 2002, 20:05   #2
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I've asked various places and here is some feedback..

http://www.rochdaleonline.com/forum/...p?TOPIC_ID=304

http://www.rochdaleonline.com/forum/...p?TOPIC_ID=271

http://www.rochdaleonline.com/forum/...p?TOPIC_ID=305
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Old 17th November 2002, 20:06   #3
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Thanks BT, i'm now owed $5 for winning the bet.
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Old 17th November 2002, 20:09   #4
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To make a good impression just be yourself. Most people will see straight through you if you try to be someone youre not.

Can people of different races have a relationship? Yes, as long as both are open minded.

The cinema is always a safe bet for the first date. If youre nervous you dont have to try to find things to talk about.
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On first date, No Movie!! can't talk nothing yuk,
Do they do "up" all the store windows this time of year where
you live? Strolling and looking at "Christmas Windows" romantic
even if you are a raging atheist! Dinner small woody pub! excellent!
Someplace with a Fireplace!!!

And can inter-racial relationships survive...bet your hiney!

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Atmo thanks... I'd just like to know what people do and have done as past dates as its my turn on that trip, and get myself out of my shell
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And can inter-racial relationships survive...bet your hiney!
but I'm not sure on this one as I'm sure it would cause a shit load of trouble...with their family and their believes
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Well, remember it's early on in the relationship..worry about
small stuff first, then you can see down the road if this person
and you have a "shot" at it!
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Three words: Listen to her.


(And that means actually listen. Don't pretend to listen.)
PRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!! AHHH, Men!

please talk about yourself, personal things, most women, girls
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Slap your schlong on the table and tell her you are a first date person too

Or you could just be your usual self. Don't lie to her. Women always see through lies. Its a gift.
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Nuts,forgot!! Bring her One Blue Rose! {Yes they'll dye it for you}

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Ahahaha *ahem* hehehehe
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Ahahaha *ahem* hehehehe
Slut!
no no no this girl is special ..I don't know what it is..her eyes are amazing...very beautiful and nice to chat with ...i can't work it out what I like about her but its a great feeling

I've been bewitched!!!!
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No, I meant Bilbo's a Slut, not your special person..
Take it slow, breathe dam it, okay Bring The fucking Blue Rose
It will impress the shit out of her.
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can different races last as a relationship ...like asian (indian) and white, I know their religion much have a law or something but not sure
Indian? Indian parents are very anal about letting their daughters date, let alone date a white guy. What religion is she? If she's Muslim, I give you a 10% chance that it will work in the long run. And that's only because you live in the UK, where there the moderate Muslim population makes up a pretty sizable proportion of the total.

If she's a Hindu, you may have a bit more luck.
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Maybe, but she consented to go out, so she can't be that afraid
of "The Chance Of It" Forget me, I'm a closet romantic!
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Indian? Indian parents are very anal about letting their daughters date, let alone date a white guy. What religion is she? If she's Muslim, I give you a 10% chance that it will work in the long run. And that's only because you live in the UK, where there the moderate Muslim population makes up a pretty sizable proportion of the total.

If she's a Hindu, you may have a bit more luck.
Thanks, I'm not sure on what religion she is..how can you tell?..she wears normal clothes compaired to the gowns that the other asians wear

Widdykats, do they do them roses in the UK?, never seen one only red and white but I'm sure I can dye one at home lol or wrap it in bluetape if not

what does the blue symbolise?
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Thanks, I'm not sure on what religion she is..how can you tell?..she wears normal clothes compaired to the gowns that the other asians wear
Well, it's hard to say, just from looks. Do you know her nationality (Pakistani, Bangladeshi, Sri Lankan, Indian), or just a generic "indian"? Does she have a slight bit of an accent? Is she vegetarian? What tone of color is her skin (light, medium, or dark)?

By the way, don't take this to mean that you shouldn't give it a shot. Even if her parents disagree with the whole situation, she may be very open-minded. All I'm saying is that in the long run, things likely will not work out. Doesn't mean that you shouldn't try, though.
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don't scratch your crotch.

thus concludes "everything zootm knows about relationships".

alternatively follow the whole "be yourself" path - if she's the one for you, she'll appreciate to see the real you. she'll like it. just talk to her, doesn't matter what about.

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Thanks, I'm not sure on what religion she is..how can you tell?..she wears normal clothes compaired to the gowns that the other asians wear

Widdykats, do they do them roses in the UK?, never seen one only red and white but I'm sure I can dye one at home lol or wrap it in bluetape if not

what does the blue symbolise?
Any decent florist will Take White Rose and Dye It Blue!
Blue Roses comes from a line in the Glass Managerie{Tennessee Williams}
I thought you had "blue roses" no she says Pleurisy
You"d like the play cause you've gone goofy!
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Love happens between two people, not 2 races.
Where to go?
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I'd, naturally, like to sit in a warm pub eat nice food talk to
the nice guy who brought me the flower and naturally HE can pay
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I took it seriously at first, then realised i was incompetent. or is that incontinent... Probably both
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hehe bilbo.. if it wasnt for my aquila, i'd SO take advantage of you on the 19th dec -nudge nudge wink wink say no more-
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"I'd, naturally, like to sit in a warm pub eat nice food talk to
the nice guy who brought me the flower and naturally HE can pay
heheheehe"-WiddyKats

As he certainly should if he's any sort of gentleman at all!

" Well it beats lying down in the woods with ants biting ya"-WiddyKats

Yeah, not to mention poison ivy. Go to nature to feel the other persons energy, away from static, somewhere quiet, and not artificial. If your spirits are like they shall recognize each the other there.
No camping for me thanks, I'm strictly motorhome or houseboat when it comes to staying out all weekend in an area where good hotels are few and far between.
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By the way, don't take this to mean that you shouldn't give it a shot. Even if her parents disagree with the whole situation, she may be very open-minded. All I'm saying is that in the long run, things likely will not work out. Doesn't mean that you shouldn't try, though.
Correct. The younger generations do seem to have a more open mind about relationships than most of the old folks.
Word to the wise...Honesty will score points with the young ones, honor is key with the older families.
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Avalon's what to comment on
Do's and Don'ts
(Do Comment on/Dont Comment on)

1. The size of her eyes/the size of her chest

2. How great she looks her clothing/how great she would look without her clothing

3. She talks very well/How great her "diction" is

4. Her lipstick complements her/Her lipstick would complement you

5. She's fun to be with/She's fun to sleep with

6. Comment on her beauty/Comment on her booty

7. If you can pick her up in your car/That the date is never going to leave the car

8. How good the wheather is/Some girl name heather

.... can't think of any more. :-D
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hmmmm..

think about it more, consider the eventualities of asking her out, sure she may be cute, and you want to be with her, but theres more to it then looks, or how her eyes look, find out which religion she follows, if any, and take some time to learn it's background, im not saying become a born again hindu, im meerly saying take the time to educate yourself, not just with their religion either, learn a little about there activities, and such, the more you understand the less likely it will be that, if she goes out with you, her parents will be against you., if a random white male suddenly, starts taking their daughter out, they will not be very appreciative, instead, as a friend, take her for a walk somewhere, a park or somewhere you can be alone, but still within reach of civilasation, a park is good, find a becnh, and sit down with her, tell her how you feel, (note : that does NOT mean ask her out), just let her know how you feel about her, and let her reply with how she feels, dont interupt her while she replies, and dont push her is she says she cant go out with you, if you have any deep feelings inside, dont drop them on her, no matter how much it will make her feel sorry for you, It's actually very comon for people to mistake sympathy for love, thus, be yourself, but dont be depressing, if as youve indicated to us, she has feelings for you, she will tell you, since after pouring your heart out, she has little reason not to, after that, instead of "meeting up", please, actualy go to her house to call for her, dont just ring the bell and ask if she's there, ring the bell and introduce yourself as her friend (even if your going out), get to know the family well, be respectful, and kind to them, help out where possible, let them see your not a strange weirdo who is going to steal their daughter, once they have accepted you, if your still with her, slowly let them know that your with her, they will accept it better then suddenly turning up at their home and saying "im your daughters boyfriend", Time and effort is key.
If you feel its going to far, just to be with her, then you probably dont love her as much asd you think, and its meerly enfatuation.
like for me, i'm learning myself Mandarin, even though both my girlfriend and her parents speak fluent english, im also reading books on asian culture just to give myself a little more information. To be able to communicate with someone, is one thing, but to be able to share opinions and thoughts with someone is a whole lot better.

But on a final note, LISTEN to her, dont just let it in one ear and out of the other, Listen to what she has to say, and when she's done, comminucate back with a relative subject.
and please, for god sakes, if you end up asking her out, DONT display signs of depression if she says no, say simply.. "Well.. if thats how you really feel.. i would very much like to remain your friend"
and no, theres no side meaning to that, be her friend, and remain her friend.


ah well, i still dislike you bt, but if you act how you normally do around me, you'll fuck it up, so i thought i may as well point you in a good direction.
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can different races last as a relationship ...like asian (indian) and white, I know their religion much have a law or something but not sure

Where would you take a girl out to

I went out with a phillipino girl for quite some time. Nothing bad there.

My ideal first date with a girl would be to go to an IMAX movie, then bring her back to my place and invite other friends over to pass a bowl around and discuss politics and philosophy.
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hehe bilbo.. if it wasnt for my aquila, i'd SO take advantage of you on the 19th dec -nudge nudge wink wink say no more-
oh dear. will have to bring a catlle prod or something, won't i >_<

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last time i had my eye on an indian girl, she ended up being married. o.O

blue, one of my best friends is a white guy who's dating an indian girl. her parents are ULTRA conservative, so naturally they have no clue he exists. it's tough (and i honestly don't think the relationship between the two of them is a good idea, for non-ethnic reasons)

but by all means, go for it. if she's into you, there you go. as far as dates go, i've always had bad luck with first dates and food. just a thing. bowling is nice, harmless, etc, but COMPETITION REALLY MAGNIFIES THE CHEMISTRY!!! after, a nice walk through a nearby park (preferably with a forest and some paths). somewhere in all this, lean in and just get that first kiss out of the way... surprise her and you get points (or maybe she'll slap you in the face... it depends)

generally i'm the one getting seduced, but recently i had some practice on vice versa, so it's all otay. good luck.
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but recently i had some practice on vice versa, so it's all otay. good luck.
but dude, i'm both white and male, and stop telling everyone about our fling!
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where to go? well, if you dont really wanna talk, or are really shy, a movie would be a good thing to go to. but if you really want to get to know her, maybe take her to dinner or something.

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Just one pointer - but its important:

"suck me beautiful" will only work if you've got that whole james bond debonaire thing happening

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