Old 27th October 2003, 18:11   #1
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he cant seem to start one, so i'll do it for him.

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Old 27th October 2003, 18:17   #2
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i have this problem with a friend. he keeps wanting to hang out, but he's really getting on my nerves lately. i just called off our meeting up on wednesday, and i know he's gonna want to reschedule, but i wont. i feel awful about doing this. and the thing is he's been really sick lately, and i feel awful about doing this to him, but i just can't stand another day being around him.


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Old 27th October 2003, 18:17   #3
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actually, he can't post either. mods? help?
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Old 27th October 2003, 18:18   #4
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ok, it seems like im only able to post a certain amount of letters, that is weird


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Old 27th October 2003, 21:29   #5
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i am having a huge problem with the forums too, i cant seem to make new threads or my posts too long


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Old 27th October 2003, 21:33   #6
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Old 27th October 2003, 21:36   #7
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what exactly be that then?


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Old 27th October 2003, 22:27   #8
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Old 28th October 2003, 00:57   #9
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i have this problem with a friend. he keeps wanting to hang out, but he's really getting on my nerves lately. i just called off our meeting up on wednesday, and i know he's gonna want to reschedule, but i wont. i feel awful about doing this. and the thing is he's been really sick lately, and i feel awful about doing this to him, but i just can't stand another day being around him.
I've had the exact problem before. The only advice I can offer to you is just to keep making excuses (Homework, etc.) until you feel ready to confront him. If he is your friend, you need to tell him some of the things that he's doing that bother you... But, try to do it in a nice way. Spend a few days thinking on it.

It could not only be him himself being annoying, it could be that you don't like who you are when you're hanging out with this guy.

I wouldn't feel too bad about it, because just like romantic relationships, there's chemistry involved in friendships, too. if it's not there... Just doesn't work.

Take Kelly for example. Kelly likes to talk about horses. Kelly eats, sleeps, breathes, and dreams... Of horses.
I like horses, but not like she does. I'm not obsessed.
She never
ever
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shuts up about how she loves horses, what her horse did, blah blah. She's also a psycho, obsessed with fire and knives and shit, and it's really annoying. She's so... I dunno. Fake...

I just kind of avoided her for a while, and then... Just talked to her on MSN now and again. She's not so bothersome now.

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Old 28th October 2003, 01:21   #10
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I've had the exact problem before. The only advice I can offer to you is just to keep making excuses (Homework, etc.) until you feel ready to confront him. If he is your friend, you need to tell him some of the things that he's doing that bother you... But, try to do it in a nice way. Spend a few days thinking on it.

It could not only be him himself being annoying, it could be that you don't like who you are when you're hanging out with this guy.

I wouldn't feel too bad about it, because just like romantic relationships, there's chemistry involved in friendships, too. if it's not there... Just doesn't work.

Take Kelly for example. Kelly likes to talk about horses. Kelly eats, sleeps, breathes, and dreams... Of horses.
I like horses, but not like she does. I'm not obsessed.
She never
ever
ever
ever
ever
shuts up about how she loves horses, what her horse did, blah blah. She's also a psycho, obsessed with fire and knives and shit, and it's really annoying. She's so... I dunno. Fake...

I just kind of avoided her for a while, and then... Just talked to her on MSN now and again. She's not so bothersome now.
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I think she's Canadian, from out West somewhere.

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Furthest west you can get. Victoria, Vancouver Island, British Columbia, Canada.

It's said that everyone on the planet has some kind of twin, somewhere. This Kelly I know, she had a cleft palate or a growth that had to be removed (Can't remember) so her lip is all screwed up and her nose is slightly pushed to the side... Yeah...

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The simplest solution is to tell your friend you have joined some religion and prefer to spend your time with the other followers. When asked what this religion is, tell them you are an 8th day satanist. They will choose not to talk to you. Simple.

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Old 28th October 2003, 17:37   #15
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Take Kelly for example
She never
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shuts up about how she loves horses, what her horse did, blah blah. She's also a psycho, obsessed with fire and knives and shit, and it's really annoying. She's so... I dunno. Fake...
same here with a x gf of mine - broke up with me when i gave the wrong aswer to a question she asked me " what's your fav part of a horse"

I answered " don't care what part it is as long as you can put it on the old BBQ "
end of relation- buy buy space so long hope to never see you again.

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thanks for the help dudes, im not so sure about the satanist thing tho . any other advice?


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