Old 23rd February 2004, 21:59   #1
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what can you do to make a girl know you miss her?

My friend and his girlfriend used to live together on campus. He graduated and she hasn't. he is very busy with his new job (45 minutes away) and can't visit her often. what can he do to make her know he misses her during the week?

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Old 23rd February 2004, 22:06   #2
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e-mail her.

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have him make a video of him havnig sex with another girl, but have the other girl be wearing a paper bag over her head with a blown-up picutre of his girlfriend's head glued on, then mail the video to her.

Have him add some text at the bottom saying something like "missing you" or even better "wish you were here"
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Old 23rd February 2004, 22:07   #3
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Write long letters, one a day should do the trick.

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Old 23rd February 2004, 22:25   #4
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they call each other everyday (they don't call me ) so writing letters that require 3 days to send while calling is kinda wierd. but i'll suggest it.

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Old 23rd February 2004, 22:41   #5
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If they call each other every day is it really necessary for him to say how much he misses her? And if so, can't he just tell her on the phone?
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Old 23rd February 2004, 22:52   #6
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Old 23rd February 2004, 23:24   #7
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I think that writing a nice letter is still a bigger gesture that is considered more serious then just calling someone because you can really see the effort he took in writing something...tell him not to spam her with too much stuff (phon calls+e mails+letters+...) or it cold become a little creepy. I'm sure that he already knows that he misses her whne they call each other every day, he can also ahow her how much he missed her when they get back together at the weekends

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Old 23rd February 2004, 23:37   #8
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send her a condom full of jiz with a note attached. The note should say, "these guys missed you too, now they're dead."

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Old 23rd February 2004, 23:40   #9
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Old 23rd February 2004, 23:49   #10
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alternatively travel the 45 mins one day just to tell her you love her, then say u have to dash. Do so and then let her think that u travelled for 1.5 hours to tell her that. Maybe then u might get to sit back with a beer and watch a movie, while she sucks on your trouser snake. Its a result worth making the effort for.

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Old 24th February 2004, 01:38   #11
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Um, yeah. Go see her. 45 minutes? Please... That's not far away at all.

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Old 24th February 2004, 02:09   #12
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Old 24th February 2004, 02:12   #13
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get a new girlfriend closer to where he lives.

LOL... tha'ts good!! i'll tell him that one!

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Old 24th February 2004, 02:17   #14
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The girl I love lives around 9 hours away (7 if I don't do the limit) my solution: we both have sprint phones with the unlimited pcs to pcs calling.
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hahaha.. how long have you been dating? i would think that after a couple years you run out of stuff to talk about.

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Stand outside her house and scream her name. If that doesn't work ring the house and then tell her what she has on (so she knows you care). Make sure you murder and bury her parents in the back garden before you ring though in case they get in the way. That always works, don't forget to ask her what her favorite scary movie is.

Oh wait you wanted to convince her that you miss her, and not freak her out?

I would say forget about ringing her. You've messed up and ringing her is probably only going to make matters worse. If you are going to speak to her I would recommend doing so in public with loads of people around (so she is not further freaked out). Oh, and don't mention all the photos you have on your bedroom wall and the shrine to her, they never understand about those things.

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Old 24th February 2004, 03:11   #17
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Old 24th February 2004, 03:29   #18
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i find "i miss you" over the phone works real wonders.
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Old 24th February 2004, 03:43   #19
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Lol!If you want a serious suggestion...
Just talk with her…. He doesn’t need any help of other things (i.e. big mails, cards) to show his feelings, it will come out normally that he isn’t normal without his girl if the girl really likes him and knows him…. it isn’t that hard to notice the changes and that he’s missing her.
Its ok if he is busy with his works so he can't give her time....that doesn't mean that he isn't missing her!Can't be...everyone understands that.
He can phone her during free-times…. may be during launch time or something like that and he starts talking casually ....just show how he cares. I mean he can ask have she taken her food as well? Or how these days have been for her without him? Is she taking good care of herself? Is she taking good care of her? And of course, is she missing her?

Well I think he doesn’t need to make her convince that how much he’s missing her…just talk casually and the girl will understand….Its something that’s can not be shown but need to feel. And this is what love is about… feelings!

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Old 24th February 2004, 04:19   #20
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e-mail her.

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have him make a video of him havnig sex with another girl, but have the other girl be wearing a paper bag over her head with a blown-up picutre of his girlfriend's head glued on, then mail the video to her.

Have him add some text at the bottom saying something like "missing you" or even better "wish you were here"

haha what a horrible idea! but it was quite amusing
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Old 24th February 2004, 04:22   #21
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dont listen to them...just listen to this haiku,

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that's a good haiku. It's where i'm from too!

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gee, this is a tough one. i dont know, how about telling her that he misses her?
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Old 24th February 2004, 06:23   #24
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if only women were that easy my friend. they are much more complex; just saying it isn't enough

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It ought to be enough. Does this guy have any reason to believe that his girlfriend doesn't think he misses her? If not, then what is the problem?

If so, then this girl has issues.
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I agree with shizawn. Although it can be nice to recieve a special letter, he shouldn't overdo it...as I said I would find that freaky...I also wouldn't expect a guy to do more for me than I'm doing for him, there seems to be no reason for a doubt that he doesn't miss her so there's no reason to overly prove it, telling her the truth would suffice. If it doesn't then it would be her issue and she needed to talk to him about it.
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hahaha.. how long have you been dating? i would think that after a couple years you run out of stuff to talk about.
No you definitely don't. I've been together with my boyfriend for almost 28 months now and live 3 hours by fast train away from him since I moved for my college. We call each other about every other day and try to see each other at least every other weekend, it works great so far and we always have plenty to talk about!

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do you talk about the salmon swimming towards your room? the snow and the moon.

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Do you mean me gqSkrub? In caes you do, I don't (talk about this salmon I know nothing about).

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Old 24th February 2004, 15:57   #29
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It's best to ignore him Mia. It's like an argument over which shade of grey is better talking to him.

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45 minutes is not far.
Try sending her an ear or two, she'll come around.

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