Well, the subject line says it all, pretty much.
I can't stand fading in between song changes, and fading on pauses is a little weird. However, if I manually stop a song, it feels "abrupt" if it doesn't fade out. So, I kinda like them seperate.
edit: SAID it all. Perhaps the "preview" button should show whether or not the subject line will get cut off.
It was: "request: separate out "Pause", "Song Change" and "Manual Stop" in DirectSound fading"