there are a lot of different tools to create icons,
try visiting http://www.google.com
and type "icon editor".
I use Axialis Ax-Icons:
but it's shareware. It's a nice tool but maybe there are also free tools available on the net.
But if you tell me what to do, i can send you a zipfile...
Question: i have posted a 32x32x16 icon for you in the zip (logo new.ico). Should your icon be even bigger???